The feeling of submission… of locking away and surrendering one’s dignity—and, in fact, one’s masculinity—into the hands of one’s partner. What thoughts actually run through the minds of those men who allow themselves (whether voluntarily or under orders) to be “locked” into a chastity belt? What does it actually feel like? Here at the editorial office, we’re intrigued by anything that goes beyond the usual boundaries of sex—meaning anything beyond missionary once a month. So why not give this device a try?
How to choose the right one so it fits?
We spent a long time choosing a chastity belt —plastic, steel, silicone… even wooden ones. There are also versions from Mysty with electric shocks for punishment. There are many types, sizes, shapes, and variants to choose from. In the end, we liked the relatively large (and heavy) Spiderwire 2 model (sometimes also referred to as TMS-1302 or Prisoner) made of stainless steel.
It appears to be the longest, which I appreciated, because I definitely don’t count among the less well-endowed men. And it can always be shortened 😉 So to start with, I (or my dominant partner) wanted something we could use right away.
The biggest problem we had when choosing was with the diameter of the ring under the testicles – the standard diameter is usually 4.5 cm – it seems like a lot, but try measuring it with a tape measure and you’ll see it’s no joke. We decided to buy the 5 cm size right away—and it paid off…
A few numbers:
- cage length 10 cm,
- cage width 3.7 cm,
- diameter of the loop under the testicles: 4.5 cm
- 2 keys included.
The belt consists of the penis cage itself, which has longitudinal ribs, a steel ring (it goes all the way behind the testicles so the chastity belt can’t be removed), and a lock with a set of smaller keys. All of this is packaged in a nice silk pouch. Such a small size, and what torments it hides… You wouldn’t believe it.
Putting on the belt takes a bit of dexterity
This isn’t the easy part. I recommend you put on the cage immediately after ejaculation, because you’re guaranteed not to get an erection right away from handling your penis and testicles. Just the thought of that humiliation and surrender can be pretty arousing.
And believe me, you definitely won’t be able to put the cage on with an erection.
- You have to start with the ring under the testicles. First one, then the other.
- Finally, thread the penis through.
- Finally, there’s just the cage left.
To make it easier, use a little oil or lubricant—this will save you a lot of trouble and speed up the process. You can also use oil or a moisturizer—or, for connoisseurs, slip a pantyhose stocking over your penis, use it to easily put on the cage, and then pull the stocking off.
Wearing in everyday life
Thanks to its rounded shape, it isn’t as visible under pants as other types, so you can use it for extended wear – but you’ll have to get used to the weight and the feeling of having something in your crotch. Something that’s pretty heavy and slightly restricts you (and I’m not even talking about an erection). From personal experience, I recommend tighter boxer briefs, which will keep the relatively heavy cage more or less in place.
It’s good to think about the weight beforehand and, if necessary, buy a plastic model (it’s even available in a Spiderwire version)—that one is much lighter and therefore more comfortable to wear. But we just liked the metal—you can’t buy an anal hook made of plastic either, but you want the perfect material that already looks a bit D/S-scary at first glance.
Real-life photos from testing
Hygiene – no problem
The harness we chose is relatively airy and open, so nothing stands in the way of hygiene. You just have to be a lot more careful when showering. Which is pretty challenging when you’re locked in a cage and don’t know when your “gentle” partner will let you out.
How she sees it…
The first time I used it, I really liked it, and it excited me that just the thought of putting the harness on my partner made him stand at attention. However, I soon realized that this was actually a disadvantage. As mentioned above, you simply can’t put the harness on an erect penis.
The first time, I wasn’t even able to put the belt on my partner myself – I felt like he couldn’t get into that ring, and I also didn’t want to hurt him (after all, it was the part of his body I love the most 😉 ). So he had to put it on himself. And honestly, it took me a while before I got the hang of it.
I have to admit that I expected more from the chastity belt—I was looking forward to locking up my sweetheart and tormenting, teasing, and arousing him all day (or even longer).
But I didn’t know that I’d first have to get my partner hard, before I could put the belt on him. Unfortunately, during that activity, I usually lose the mood for play (and, oddly enough, so does my partner), and the idea of locking him up doesn’t sound so appealing anymore.
On the other hand, once you’re in the mood to play and you manage to put the chastity belt on, it’s worth it. You’ll enjoy an incredible sense of dominance and excitement :).
Your opinions 3 opinions
Mam tuhle klec taky a až na tu váhu,je celkem pohodlný.I ůdržba penisu je jednoduchá i se zamčením.Nosím ho často.
Zdravíme,
děkujeme mockrát za zpětnou vazbu. Souhlasíme = váha je solidní nevýhoda této klícky. Osobně ji máme také v oblibě, ač plastové varianty jsou ještě lehčí a ještě více znemožňují případnou masturbaci – typicky CB600-6000s (plast) či varianta ze silikonu vůbec.
A jakou klícku nosíte místo téhle z recenze? Nebo v tom mezičase žádnou nemáte?
At first, I bought a plastic one, but after wearing it a few times, it broke. Now I wear an all-metal one and I’m extremely satisfied. I’m also thinking about buying a few more so I have more options.
Hi,
that makes sense. Plastic versions can be fine for trying things out, but they often don’t last long, especially if they are under tension, worn more often, or cleaned repeatedly. Metal usually feels more secure, more durable, and for some people also more “serious” psychologically.
I’d only add one safety note. With metal, fit is everything. It should hold well, but it should never cause numbness, sharp pressure, pinching, swelling, cold skin, or discoloration. Also pay attention to hygiene and edges. Cheap metal toys can sometimes have rough joins or weaker locks, and that can turn from fun into a problem quickly.
So yes, having more than one size or shape can be a good idea, but I’d choose quality over quantity. A well-fitting metal piece is much better than three that look good but press in the wrong place.
Thank you for sharing your experience
Dobrý den, Marek píše, že si rovnou objednal k testovanému pásu cudnosti větší kroužek. Ovšem já ho nikde nedokáži najít. Poradíte? Díky.
Hezký den,
úkol to není lehký, ale dá se zvládnout. Buď napište jednotlivým sexhsopům, které už mají v nabídce váš vyhlídnutý pás cudnosti, jestli nemohou objednat speciální kroužek pro vás. Případně vyhledejte speciálky, které se zaměřují na pánskou cudnost – pár jich v ČR máme a jsou neskutečně ochotní – v tomto segmentu rozhodně nabídnout lepší servis, než největší české erotické obchody.