Forget the classic hand job where you can repeat UP and DOWN, UP and DOWN in your mind. Try to enjoy the hand job as much as your partner and see how you please your partner.
Ways to jerk off that you don’t know
Masturbation can be distinguished into wet and dry. The goal of wet masturbation is to induce extravaginal ejaculation. While stroking the penis, the partner may use her saliva or lubricating gels to moisten it.
Conversely, the principle of dry masturbation is to guide the flaccid penis into an erection. This technique is often used before intercourse. It is possible to tease the penis in many ways. Here are just a few techniques that I use to always please my boyfriend.
Most men prefer to grip the penis firmly, yet gently, in the palm and fingers of the hand. This is followed by a slow movement up and down the penis that brings a pleasurable thrill. If the man has not undergone circumcision, the hand can be moved so that the glans rubs not against the skin of the fingers and palm but against the skin of the foreskin.
And he is very happy to return the gratitude after a powerful orgasm = it’s a quid pro quo.
Some Handjob Tips
Here we’ve collected and tested some of the methods that will liven up a classic handjob and add to your experience. Classically, you gentlemen can enjoy them with yourself, but there’s no harm in showing this guide to your partner as well. Let them learn how to make you feel good.
- Palm Teasing: Hold your penis with one hand and run the palm of your other hand over your partner’s glans in circular motions. Moisturizing is very important here so that your hand glides nicely over the penis. Don’t be afraid to also engage in gentle friction in the bridle area.
- Up and down: your hand is moistened, you grasp the penis and slide it over the glans (all the way down over the penis), you can also use your thumb to slide it over the glans more vigorously.
- Think about the balls too: the technique can be the same as in the previous two points, except that you will not only focus your attention on the penis, but also play with the balls.
- Heat and rub: First, warm your hands by rubbing vigorously. Then place your hands on the penis and gently rub it from the sides. However, keep in mind that the friction must be gentle and you can run your hands from top to bottom.
- If you prefer gentle stroking: if your partner has a more sensitive penis, you can also try gentle stroking over the glans.
- Delaying orgasm: have you tried ice? If not, fix it fast. Just before climaxing, gently cool your partner’s penis with an ice cube. It will make his orgasm much more intense.
You can also include adult toys
We’re on a magazine that’s mainly testing erotic aids, so we won’t indulge in a few tips on wankers or artificial vaginas here. These are great for both classic penis wanking/masturbation and training for longer lasting sex. You can choose between very realistic ones (like a cast vagina/porn actress’ ass) or clean and simple ones that don’t even look like a sex tool.
The most popular brands of masturbators:
They range in price from a few hundred crowns (cheap gel ones to start with) to higher thousands (made of pure silicone, with vibrations, porn girl casting, …). So there is one for everyone. The extremes are fucking silicone dolls in real size (not to be confused with cheap inflatable dolls), which cost definitely from several tens more. They offer fantastic sex, but cheaper wankers will suffice for better masturbation.
Their teasing protrusions will get you to orgasm quickly, and it’s up to you to stop the thrusts, wait a while, and thereby improve your shot control and intensify your orgasm.
You can experiment with deprivation
When individual wanking methods aren’t enough, you can try new toy experiences or try restricting your senses. How does it feel to cover your eyes? How will you actually feel the individual pull of your foreskin over your glans, how your hand glides over a wet penis… You’d be surprised, but it’s a rave like crazy. For a more intense experience, maybe buy a full deprivation mask – it’s used in BDSM practices and offers incredible soundproofing and blinding. You’ll probably never experience such disconnection from the ordinary world again.
Or wear earplugs or soundproof headphones and play with your clit again – even the soundproofing will help you focus better and experience orgasm differently.
Heat and cold – surprise but delight
If you don’t know which way to go and still feel like masturbating differently, include the so-called “temperature play”. By warming up (hot water) or cooling down (ice cubes) your palm or erotic artificial vagina, you will add more sensations and unusual sensations. For this play, you can use a massage candle, which instead of wax contains massage oil that slowly but surely melts when the wick is lit.
You can easily simulate heat and cold with special moisturizing gels that induce a very similar sensation… play with them, don’t be shy and get to know yourself…
Erotic penis massage and masturbation methods
Stimulation of the glans and foreskin brings different feelings of arousal to a man. In addition, be sure to target the extremely sensitive areas of the penis. Among the most sensitive are the lower part of the glans – especially the transition between the glans and the foreskin, where the bridle is located. Also very sensitive is the skin “seam” that runs the entire length of the lower part of the penis – on one side it starts at the glans and on the other it connects to the foreskin.
If you incorporate the slow movements of the fingers of your hand into the massage of these areas, the massage will be dangerously pleasurable and will lead to great arousal for the man. Be careful, however, that the movements are not too violent – the bridle could be torn or broken.
Speed is not always an advantage…
Many women suffer from the ingrained notion that men prefer to masturbate quickly. Dynamic stimulation is interesting – a gentle massage one minute, a faster handjob the next. However, if a woman is jerking off all the time penis too fast, she doesn’t even manage to incorporate stimulation of the glans and other more sensitive areas, and men find such masturbation rather monotonous and less interesting.
Experiment – feel free to take inspiration from porn videos
Men love the variety of stimulation that brings the most wonderful stimuli and excitement. Decide to ask your partner what they like, get their advice and don’t be afraid to experiment. Try changing speeds, circling, pressure, stroking, slow and fast masturbation. Don’t be afraid to incorporate stroking your inner thighs, tummy, groin, testicles and perineum to intensify the pleasurable experience.
Key links to help you find the perfect technique in pornography: handjob, tantra, tantric massage, …
You can also try stroking, kneading or rotating your finger on the tip of the foreskin. This is a technique that not only induces high arousal and erection, but also slowly prepares men for glans stimulation. For some men, stimulation of the oral urethra is also arousing. This should be given only a reasonable amount of time and especially with enough lubricant. However, do not try to enter the urethra with your finger or any other object – this is dangerous and painful.
Whatever form of penile stimulation you choose, it is important that partners talk about their feelings and know what the other person likes.
Specific methods of pleasurable penile stimulation
And now for a few chosen techniques to get him off his knees O:)
Irritating friction
You need a lubricant, which you lightly rub on the inside of your palm – you then rub your glans against that until orgasm. An alternative is to combine the classic one-handed wanking with the addition of just a teasing palm rub. You can also use a lubricated forearm for this purpose.
Freezing Palm
You can jerk off as usual, but have a container of cold water ready. In case you feel an orgasm coming on, cool one hand and cool your testicles = you won’t forget the ride and you’ll want more!
Milkmaid
Learn how to get a good “juicing” with this feel – join your thumb and forefinger in a ring and run this loop through the lube from root to glans. With your right hand, join the teasing loop when your left hand is at the glans. And again and again – alternate them one after the other until you reach orgasm.
Start and stop
You can masturbate any way you want, but the trick is to stop before you hit the spurt. You wait a while and then you go to the limit again and stop. Repeat this for 3-4 and then cum. It’s going to be an incredible pleasure.
Personal
You can take inspiration from Christians who clasp their palms together when they pray – you can squeeze your penis between them just like that, running the flats of both palms over it. You can also go into a version of “supplication” where the hands are not upwards, but forwards, and you can simulate the motion of supplication.
And how do you gentlemen hunt him? Or do anonymous experienced ladies join the debate? Let us know your masturbation tips and advice in the comments 🙂
Your opinions 13 opinions
Tell me how to do it
I chase happily and often. Sometimes even 3 times a night and I am always glad for the beautiful moment when the spurt comes. I like light dry jerking and using gel Sometimes I cum in a few minutes and sometimes I really prolong it. It’s also not bad if I underbalance my balls and masturbate really hard. Massaging the glans under the skin is also great in self pleasuring but always using gel. Anyone who says they don’t masturbate is lying and ashamed to admit it Masturbation is healthy for both men and women. I’m not ashamed to admit that I even taste my cum sometimes.
And I’m gay, and I jerk off twice every day, once with my boyfriend and the other time alone. Sometimes I have bigger cravings, like 3 or 4 times. Is it normal at 28 to be so fucked up? 🙂
Have a nice day, it’s definitely okay – it’s just that your partner, or the world in general, excites you, so you want to go on and on. 🙂 Enjoy!
It is best to start slowly and gradually hold your penis tighter and faster, keeping it just below the glans. The tighter and tighter jerking will soon start to bear fruit and you will feel it working. In addition to the classic climaxing anywhere you can think of, I also like to practice (I’m only good at it) jerking it towards my face while lying on my back, with my legs draped as close to my head as possible, and in the finale behind my head. It’s not an easy position and it’s not for everyone, it takes stretching and having the body parts relaxed enough to do it. If I initially felt the pleasurable sensations while sitting, lying down or standing, and then did the position described it would be something like this… lying on my back with my feet behind my head and my knees level with my head or resting (propped up) on the ground, I briskly jerk my standing penis, pointing (not accidentally) at my face. The moment before I reach orgasm, I buck up to get the penis in my mouth (I don’t stop jerking off) and at the moment of cumming it has to be as deep in my mouth as possible and then just enjoy the pleasure… feel your mouth filling with warm white chocolate and you have no chance to do anything but swallow. If everything goes right, you will also cum in your own mouth (the deeper the better) and not a single drop will go to waste. Congratulations!
Thank you very much for your helpful and insightful comment. :))) Hopefully it will help other masturbation enthusiasts in their next pleasure shoots.
School will not be the best environment (you can be caught at any time and by anyone – that is, if the risk doesn’t excite you) – try experimenting more in private, where you can relax more.
School will not be the best environment (you can be caught at any time and by anyone – that is, if the risk doesn’t excite you) – try experimenting more in private, where you can relax more.
I’d say I have the best guide to jerking off. My first girlfriend once initiated me into masturbating in a pair of sweatpants. When she hit on me, I thought she was crazy, but you gotta try everything. And it was a real treat. You just have to put on the nylons and you can feel it yourself.It’s very pleasant and the orgasm is absolutely perfect. Of course I haven’t discovered America, there are plenty of tutorials on the internet, just search
Great – thanks for expanding our article and another tip to enjoy :))
I learned about foot wanking through a man. It’s worth it. I enjoy it because it’s unconventional and he enjoyed it immensely. Feet are handy… But honestly, it takes practice.
But generally men get quite aroused by running their feet or toes in stockings over their legs, especially their thighs. It happened to me several times that if I teased them like that for a while they jumped on me without even noticing how.
Have a nice day,
Thank you for sharing your experience with us… and I agree with you on all points – feet can do incredible things, but no scientist has fallen from the sky. Everything has to be trained (even such a natural thing as sex)
Personally I like to wankblwn zalud when a woman applies oil to the wound properly lubricates the zalud then withdraws the foreskin which with one hand she holds down the withdrawn with the other hand she starts pressing to wank zalud from the beginning very sensitive and sometimes painful, but after a while amazingly pleasurable sensations it takes longer but the result is wonderful I recommend to try it
Thank you for contributing to the discussion, it sounds fantastic and we will try it at the earliest opportunity
When I have the time and inclination, I jerk off and do all sorts of things to my testicles and penis. It’s amazing. I’m just wondering, if I jerk off for 12 hours or more, isn’t that dangerous? I keep delaying, but the results are phenomenal.
There is definitely a risk when you tie up – this is a very sensitive and potentially dangerous technique, so always be careful! Chasing as such is not risky, but the problem can definitely be in the underlining, where it must never be overdone.
It’s a ballad when I can give my dick a good jerk off myself,I have my own methods and I know how he likes it and I like it,when he starts to squirt the hole in the glans opens up and I get a wonderful cum in my snout.Dick and I are great friends,I’m a hunter so it often comes to me in the woods and it’s great how he squirts from the hatch for example on my rifle.
It’s great that you have your tried and true methods to get a great spray! Congratulations…
My instructions will certainly not please the sellers of aids, but I think it works unexpectedly reliable . Once my first girlfriend introduced me to masturbation in tights, she found it by accident in elementary school, when she came home from school in a skirt and tights and had a bit of a craving and as she stroked herself so her panties went a little to the side and when she felt it only through the tights so she discovered the way to paradise. After that, she often slept in her silk stockings on a spike and indulged in moments of pleasure even though she told me how cold her feet were for about six months. And because we all have the same mucous membranes, she tried it on me once and the result was unexpected 😀 It lasted till today I tried fleshlight but nylons are simply the best …there are millions of instructions on the web
We hope they don’t go bankrupt, anyway, thanks for the interesting idea! 🙂
I masturbate every day and I don’t have a partner, I just go to the private room and to my neighbour’s place.
Thanks for your input – everyone has a different set up and something fits everyone differently 🙂
I have problems with stamina and erection
Have a nice day, unless it’s a health problem (which you should discuss with a doctor like a sexologist/tube/psychologist), it’s just endurance training using masturbation, artificial vaginas like Fleshlight or Japanese Tenga (they’re the best for that).
Jsem bi,na honeni curaka mam radej chlapa,baba nevi kde jsou rajcovni mista ,proto vzdy sveruji koureni a honeni chlapovi a kdyz me veme cele kule do huby tak to je rajc ze mu hned postrikam cely rypak,babu radej vymrdam a jdu od ni.
Yeah I’m bi too and I totally agree with you.
Thanks for another opinion to add to the debate 🙂
Thanks for the feedback 😀 a little harsher speech, but ultimately it makes sense that a man is best helped by the man who also knows himself best.