The existence of the female G-spot is still debated, although women enjoy its teasing very much. The male G-spot is clearly established, but it is given much less attention and importance. And that is a great pity.

The male G-spot is called the prostate. And massaging it is not only pleasurable for men, but also healthy.

Prostate massage – what is it actually for?

The prostate is a part of the male reproductive tract that forms the main part of the ejaculate. The prostate is a small gland about the size of a walnut that is located below the bladder and surrounds the urethra in a ring. It can also be palpated through the rectum. The prostate is sometimes called the male G-spot. However, it is much more sensitive than in women.

Although the prostate is located inside the male pelvis, it can be stimulated both by indirect massage and directly through the entrance to the rectum. However, direct massage provides a much more powerful experience. No man will be satisfied with just one massage, but will crave more!

Many couples don’t use this place much for arousal. It is therefore necessary to throw away the shame. If you can do that, you can give your partner a much more intense orgasm.

Tip for ladies: never push your partner, rather slowly persuade him with pleasant experiences.

Prostate Health Massage

Despite the fact that the satisfaction offered by prostate massage has been talked about more than ever lately, the health benefits of this impressive method are forgotten. A team of experts claim that it is the medical (medical) massage that is one of the keys to a healthy prostate.

Doctors recommend the method especially in connection with the prevention of prostate cancer, which currently affects every third man in the Czech Republic. The risk factor for prostate cancer is mainly age and family history, which increases the likelihood of the disease.

Although medical massage is certainly not a pleasant stimulation for men, it is more than important in some cases. Massage consists of vigorous massaging, which aims to extract the secretion produced, but which is not released during normal ejaculation. The accumulation of secretion can cause chronic inflammation, which causes unpleasant pain that should be prevented by massage.

The reason for medical massage, however, may not be so much about prevention. Another incentive may be the need to obtain the secretions for analysis in a laboratory and subsequent determination of whether they contain dangerous bacteria that could afflict the man.

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How do you get a massage like this?

I definitely recommend starting slowly from the outside, and better yet, start with maybe oral sex, which will relax and invigorate your partner. For example, start by stroking the testicles and then the perineum. The labia is the name given to the very sensitive area between the testicles and the anus. And with a fair massage, continue to progress to the prostate.

Before you start working your way into your partner’s body, it’s a good idea to use a good lubricating gel. The best option, of course, would be an anal lubricant gel. Just don’t be in a hurry to push anything.

TIP: also be careful with nails and hardened skin. Cut and smooth nails, remove hard skin. Do not let injury occur.

Direct erotic prostate massage

Indirect erotic massage should begin by stimulating the prostate from the outside at a point known as the perineum, which is the area under the testicles towards the anal opening. The stimulation should be gentle and slow at first, so that the body gets used to the intense experience that is associated with external prostate massage. However, this depends on the sensitivity of each man.

There are several possible methods of external prostate massage. It can be a so-called easy massage, in which the man gently massages the area between the bladder and the rectum, i.e. the aforementioned perineum. He exerts pressure on it with light circular movements so that the sensations are not painful but pleasant. With the other hand, the man can regularly massage his testicles and scrotum, which results in an erection and direct effect on the prostate. After climaxing, the man usually feels the need to urinate.

This is due to the stimulation of the prostate gland, which causes the secretion of substances that must be removed with the urine, otherwise they could lead to unpleasant inflammation.

Another method is rhythmic contractions of the muscles in the rectal area. This subtype of massage can be performed in a variety of positions – standing, sitting, lying down. The important thing is that the man feels comfortable and can relax properly. The method consists in rhythmically stretching the muscles of the anal opening in the presence of applying gentle pressure to the prostate area.

The combination of pressure tension and rhythmic contraction of the rectal muscles should be accompanied by regular breathing, which will further enhance the atmosphere of satisfaction. With a deep inhalation, the inner part of the anus should be stretched inwards, while with a deep exhalation the muscles should relax.

Experts recommend 20-25 compressions so as not to tire the body too much.

By pressing his fingers on the prostate, a man can achieve an even more intense result than with the previous two methods. A man can perform this type of satisfaction repeatedly on his own, but he will have a stronger experience if the method is performed by his partner. The massage should begin at the pubic area, where pressure is applied with fingers joined together, which progresses to a gentle massaging of the area. The hands should gradually move towards the perineum and anal opening.

Even if it is a simple teasing at first, the experience can be very powerful.

This method can progress smoothly into a classic external massage, but the presence of another person is already important. Classical massage starts in the lower back and back of the thigh by rubbing all the fingers of both hands. The thumbs should make circular movements to penetrate deeper into the muscles and then knead them. The man lying on his stomach should determine for himself the moment when he wants to move from ‘just’ massage to irritation of the prostate.

This begins by moving his hands to the buttocks, which are kneaded in a similar way to the back and thighs. The partner can increase the intensity. A relaxing massage of the buttocks is followed by circular movements in the anal area, which can be accompanied by the use of a vibrating erotic massage tool in the area of the thoracic and lumbar vertebrae. The vibrations may increase as climax approaches.

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A selection of proven prostate stimulators

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Direct erotic prostate massage

This type of massage is very different from indirect prostate stimulation. First of all, it promises a much more intense experience than previous methods. Nevertheless, there are a large number of men for whom this technique is a sensitive subject. Therefore, it is necessary to prepare for it properly and realize that it is not only an enrichment of love life or diversification of partner sex, but that massage is a great prevention against problems with an enlarged prostate.

It is also important that the massage is performed by someone the man trusts and knows well. Unless it is a professional massage by a masseuse who is knowledgeable in the field or a tantric massage. In this case, the man should rely on the experience of his chosen masseuse. Of course, the massage can also be performed without the presence of the other person. A man knows his body best of all, and he knows what he likes and requires.

Procedure of a practical prostate massage

The massage should take place in a pleasant environment. It can be in a bedroom that the man knows well and feels comfortable in. If the man or his partner has a desire for an unusual environment, the two can choose to have the massage in a garden or private spa. However, a relaxed atmosphere and enough time for a proper experience are always important. The surroundings should be clean and tidy, with the air

fragrances wafting from lit candles and relaxing music playing in the background. However, it is up to each man what he feels best in and what suits him.

The whole course should begin with a massage of the lower back and buttocks.

This is the best way for a man to relax. This should be followed by direct anal stimulation. The best position seems to be when the man is lying on his stomach, but massage can also be performed while lying on the back with the knees bent, where the penis can also be stimulated.

You need plenty of moisturizing gel

If the man is sufficiently prepared, nothing prevents direct irritation of the anus. The partner applies enough water-based lubricating gel to his finger and then gently penetrates the man’s anus, about 6.5-7.5 cm deep. Again, it depends on the sensitivity of the man. After penetration of the buttocks, the partner hits a small spherical lump on the inside closer to the abdominal cavity, the prostate. Massaging should begin slowly and gently at first with gentle strokes.

Later, the partner can move on to massaging the prostate more thoroughly in all directions, gradually increasing the intensity. However, this is a very sensitive area, so the needs of the man must be taken into account. Stimulation of the prostate can be aided by oral teasing from the partner

or the man can masturbate himself while being teased from the inside. Male cooperation can be a great way to start. The man is likely to experience unprecedented sensations the first time, and may be so aroused that the massage alone will bring him to climax.

If the partner is sufficiently receptive, he or she can guess when the man’s climax is approaching, and stop massaging the prostate and start the teasing again in a few moments. The repetition of the intermittent massage will guarantee an incredible desire for a man to climax. The final orgasm will be much stronger than with normal teasing.

The advantage of the massage is that you do not need any special equipment, i.e. erotic aids.

However, a lubricating gel, preferably water-based, should be a must. If the man’s partner has longer nails, she should cut them before the massage. Longer nails could injure the prostate very painfully. Massage is not recommended even with false nails.

However, if your partner refuses to use his/her fingers to stimulate the prostate, he/she can use one of the erotic aids available in both brick-and-mortar and online sex shops.

Prostate massage by professional masseuses

If a man chooses to seek a professional prostate massage, he may face fears about the hygiene conditions before the actual massage takes place. However, there is nothing to fear at all. It is enough to take a shower in the comfort of one’s home before visiting the masseuse.

Some massage centers offer private shower room where a man can perform a full body cleansing. In case a man does not feel ready for a massage even after taking a shower, he can use an enema, which can be purchased from an online store, for a complete cleansing. However, the aforementioned shower will suffice.

In what position should the massage be performed?

After the cleansing, the choice of the position in which the massage is to be carried out is made. There is a wide range of positions to choose from. The most commonly recommended position for beginners is supine. Other variations are lying on the stomach or on all fours.

In the position where the man is kneeling and leaning on his hands, the masseuse’s hand can be curled as naturally as possible, resulting in a longer massage. The position on the side may also be the most comfortable.

If the man is not relaxed enough, there is also a position in which the person being massaged rests his hands on a solid board and leans forward. This position relaxes the stiff muscles to the maximum and the massage can thus proceed without any problem.

The man should urinate before placing his body in the correct position. During the massage, he will probably feel the prostate pressing on his bladder, which would then be irritated if not emptied.

The preparation of the masseuse before the massage is also important.

It pays to exercise some caution and time here. First, the masseuse will lay a towel on the bed and make sure she has latex gloves and water-based lubricant or silicone-based gloves nearby. If the masseuse and the man agree to a massage without gloves, properly cut and filed nails are a must to prevent injury or even tearing of sensitive mucous membranes.

Starting at the dam

The massage itself begins with a gentle massage of the sphincter and perineum, which helps to relax the muscles properly, and finger penetration is then much easier. After the gentle massage comes the latex gloves to reduce the risk of injury and allow for smoother penetration of the anus. The masseuse first covers her index finger with a sufficient amount of lubricating gel. She then massages the sphincter very slowly with her index finger.

Time and patience are important here. If the man is not relaxed enough, the masseuse can try gently pressing on the anal opening. This relaxes the rectal muscles and gives the masseuse easier access inside. Proper deep breathing and trying not to clench the muscles also helps to relax. Too tight muscles make it difficult for the masseuse to find the point she is looking for, the prostate.

The movement of the hand during massage can vary. Either there is constant pressure, or there is a so-called pressure-release-pressure cycle.

It is also possible to massage by circling or moving the hand from side to side. Each man likes something different, so it is up to him to decide what he finds more pleasurable. In any case, the prostate massage should be gentle at first and only become stronger over time.

Thanks to the stimulation of the prostate gland, the desired climax should occur at the end of the massage. Without any touching of the penis or testicles. The orgasm should be much stronger, more exciting and more intense than with conventional teasing.

However, ejaculation does not always have to occur.

In a “dry” orgasm, waves of pleasure spread to the arousal points as well as to the hands and feet. However, it is important to visit a qualified and proven massage centre for this experience, where the masseuses know how to achieve orgasm.

Of course, some men may not be comfortable with this kind of (direct) massage even from professional masseuses. In this case, it is possible to perform indirect massage. It is not such an intense experience, but it can still be very enjoyable.

When choosing this type of massage, the masseuse will apply some lubricant to her index finger and begin to gently press in the perineum area. She presses gently at first, adding more force over time. With this method, it is quite easy to find the prostate, so the pleasurable sensations come in a very short time.

The prostate massage itself improves erection and seminal fluid flow.

Prostate Tantric Massage

This type of massage leads men to deep physical and mental relaxation and the ability to develop an understanding of themselves. Despite all the positive effects that tantric massage undoubtedly has, only a small percentage of men have tried it so far.

Prostate massage begins externally by stimulating the perineum and continues with direct massage through the anus using a gentle massage oil or lubricant.

For internal massage, a soft latex glove is used for hygiene reasons.

Before the actual prostate stimulation, a sensual tantric full body massage will be given to relax the muscles and prepare the man for a more intense experience. During the massage, an intimate and confidential atmosphere is created, eliminating any shame or embarrassment. Prostate massage should not be painful under any circumstances. For this reason, the masseuse proceeds slowly and first prepares the entire buttocks and anus for the massage.

Only when the whole area is properly relaxed does the masseuse proceed to directly stimulate the prostate. To completely relax the man’s body, the masseuse can use the effects of warm lava stones, which she applies to the buttocks, hips and back. The prostate massage is best received on the abdomen, but the position on the back or on the side is also possible.

The experience is unique in that the masseuse takes an active role, awakening in the man the feeling that he can fully surrender himself into her hands, and thus forget about all worries and troubles. It is good to give free rein to your body during the massage, and if it wants to make sounds, let it make them. Of course, it is also possible to kneel or rest for a while during the massage.

Many men fear that if they like tantric prostate massage, it means they have homosexual tendencies. But the reality is that sex play is not related to sexuality per se. Since heterosexual men are often more dominant in sex, prostate massage can be a great way to reverse the roles easily.

Even men have a need to feel subjugated from time to time by a woman who does whatever she sees fit with them for a period of time. So these needs are perfectly fine, and they only say that you are sexually active and need to keep trying new things in your life.

For some men, Tantric prostate massage is a secret desire, but they are ashamed to ask their partner for it. The taboo is most often based on the fear of lack of hygiene and subsequent disgust with the partner.

However, this can be easily avoided by careful hygiene, which includes a proper full-body shower or an enema. In the massage itself, hygiene is also ensured by the use of latex gloves. No other special preparation or cleaning is necessary. However, it is not recommended to eat food that causes flatulence.

Fear may also arise from the partner’s not knowing how to perform the massage properly. For this reason, it is better to start by trying prostate stimulation with an experienced masseuse in a professional tantric massage, and then describing and explaining in detail what you require from your partner. In this case, openness and trust should come first.

Even if a man seeks pleasure from a professional masseuse, the experience may not be what he expected. Fears, conscious and unconscious taboos or lack of relaxation may be to blame. It is therefore important to learn to accept the massage for what it is.

It may happen that the desired climax does not occur during the first visit to the tantric centre. But there is no need to despair. You can progress little by little, gaining trust in the masseuse, releasing fears and anxieties and, most importantly, getting used to something you have never experienced before. In the experience of many men, the result is worth it in the end.

A few tips from our play

  • The ideal position is one that is comfortable for your partner and easily accessible to you.
  • Once you work your way in, start to massage on the inside towards the abdomen in circular slow movements.
  • The prostate is easy to recognize, it is a firm maroon formation that your partner will be extremely sensitive to.
  • Never put too much pressure on the prostate.
  • Rather speed up or slow down the movements, or change the direction of movement.

In addition to a very deep erotic experience, and a very arousing experience, such a massage has health benefits.

Suitable aids for this massage

The massage itself does not have to be done “in natura” with your hand (but protected by a condom or glove), but you can use a toy to help you.

The most popular one is a machine that provides a vibrating prostate massage. It allows men to experience new, previously unknown sensations while being stimulated. The machine usually consists of two parts. The longer part is inserted into the rectum, which stimulates the prostate with pressure and vibration.

The shorter part of the massager massages the sensitive area between the penis and scrotum.

The machine is usually made of flexible silicone material, so it completely adapts to the man’s body. Despite the fact that this erotic tool looks soft at first glance, the material is very firm, which guarantees strong vibrations.

Another suitable erotic tool for prostate irritation is the so-called G-vibrator. At first glance, it may seem like an “ordinary” plastic vibrator, but its extended curved end allows for a unique prostate massage. The small diameter ensures easy insertion into the rectum.

The G-vibrator is made of solid material, which makes it great for stimulating the prostate. Each man can adjust the intensity of vibration according to his own needs.

The most suitable for this are of course erotic aids specifically for prostate massage (for example Prock), or dildos of smaller diameter (but suitable shape), or an anal plug with a curved profile. There are quite a few options, and they are anatomically shaped just for the prostate.

TIP: For starters, a narrower and smaller toy with the right curvature is enough – it is the curvature that is key for precise teasing of the male g-spot = aka prostate.

G spot and perineum are key partners

Would you like to try irritating the G-spot, but don’t feel like going for it through your anus? There’s another option. The stimulation may not be as intense, but your partner will definitely enjoy it. You can satisfy your partner with intense touching in the area between the scrotum and rectum. This area is called the dam (it bridges the space between the testicles and the anus).

Prevention is important

Such a thorough and loving massage is effective prevention against prostate problems and prostate cancer. Similarly, such a massage can reveal prostate problems in time. If the prostate is noticeably larger than the size of a chestnut, is hard, bumpy or has hard spots, it is clear that everything is not quite right. In this case, it’s time to see a doctor.

And then that anal play is not healthy.

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Yeah, that’s right. First I figured it out on my own, and then I gradually taught my partner. And when she manages to massage me in those spots, my climax is absolutely amazing. We’re both very happy afterwards.

Thank you for the reference! It’s a fantastic way to relive your orgasms O:) You just need to be unashamed.

I’m looking for something guaranteed to massage the prostate. Do you have experience with it?

Hi, yes I do – we have those toys listed here: https://www.lascero.com/tag/analni-koliky/ – they are all my reviews.

Directly on the prostate I would recommend the Prock – silicone, with vibration, a more pronounced shape and an ideal curve for the prostate – . That shape ensures good direction, directly on the prostate. We got it from Elephant.

Personally, I appreciate the vibration still, it helps to relax the anus, so slipping in is easier.

Is it necessary to have an enema before anal sex? Somewhere they say yes, then somewhere they say no, so I don’t know if I’m training only with my finger so far, so it’s probably not necessary, but if we want to have intercourse?

It’s definitely better, because anal is cleaner, it’s easier to penetrate and for many it’s a prerequisite for full use of the shots. But of course you can penetrate without an enema, it just won’t be as “clean”. It’s a consideration – an enema involves some preparation and time.

what would you recommend for a gel? first we had some from erotic city for 600 which smelled weird and now we have durex strawberry and my girlfriend is burning

I would definitely recommend https://www.lascero.com/znacky/pjur/ – there is also a link to the e-shop – you probably won’t find a cleaner lubricant on the market, it’s one of the world’s best and we personally have never had any allergies or other problems. They also have xx types, sizes and uses for different situations – oral, anal, numbing, flavoured, antibacterial, higher slip… Both water-based and silicone-based.

is it possible to start with up to 3 cm diameter, and then buy a 6 cm one, or is there any advice how to scale it up, my experience so far is only with three fingers,

If the 6cm has a gradually expanding diameter, it’s possible. As a rule – gradually, slowly (expansion does not take days, but weeks), without pain (do not go through pain) and a lot of lubrication.

It depends on the use – a pin is ideal for anal play (it has a foot so it doesn’t slip and often also a more suitable shape), a vibrator is great for the classics – on the labia, teasing the clitoris…

With vibrators, it’s also about the type – there are also vibrators purely for prostate stimulation – like the Prock: https://www.lascero.com/eroticke-hracky-pomucky/recenze-stimulator-prostaty-prock/
So it’s always good to choose a specialized vibrator for a specific activity/play – a massage head for massage, a clitoral vibrator for clitoris, an anal vibrator for butt, a prostate vibrator for prostate:)

What do you think is better, an anal colic or a vibrator ?

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