A great BDSM taskmaster and punisher for submissives and subs

Not all of our sex toys are obedient (and by that I mean live ones), so we have to punish and torment them from time to time so that next time they remember who is the Master/Mistress of the situation. And when she/he has no more transgressions, we test our slave with a more challenging task… And that would be to avoid at least 1 mistake to punish 😉

This extremely comprehensive article/guide discusses topics from the beginning of a bdsm relationship (i.e. the entry questionnaire, the rules, the slave contract, to the punishment code and the actual tasks and punishments for the submissive counterpart. It is, for our editors, a very nourishing primer that you don’t have to follow exactly though, just get inspired here and there and find the perfect path for your D/s relationship.

BDSM Training Application and Questionnaire

This application form is for sub/sub interested in participating in training a potential slave or slave girl.

DATA ABOUT SUBINCE/SUB

I. Basic Information

• Name:
• Pronoun/Popular nickname:
• Status:
• Date of birth:
• E-mail:
• Education/occupation:
• Height/weight:
• Eye/hair color:
• Breast size / pubic hair gender:
• Smoking/Alcohol:

II. Body Information

• Tattoos (what, where):
• Piercing (where, what kind):
• Other other signs, peculiarities:

III. Information on previous experience

• Have you had direct experience with a Domina or Lord?
• Have you had previous experience with training?
• Are you interested in training, or why?
• Do you have experience with casual sex with a man or woman?
• Have you had homosexual intercourse?

LIST OF PRACTICES AND ACTIVITIES – questionnaire

You can also print out the whole questionnaire so that it serves better as a handy questionnaire to complete your answers. In the future, we plan to make it interactive and you will be able to save it and, if necessary, return to it at any time to expand/edit it. Plus there will also be an option to conveniently download it electronically. Probably in .pdf format.

Using the questionnaire:

• If you have already done so, please indicate YES or NO for each of the following items.
• For each of the following practices, indicate the number 0-5, where 0 means that you have no desire to do the practice (e.g., it arouses disgust in you) but are willing to do it for the Dominator; conversely, 5 means that you are strongly excited about the practice; you may also use NO if you do not want to do the practice in any case.

I. Anal practices

II. Physical punishment

III. Restrictions on movement

IV. Sexual activities

V. Erotic Aids

VI. Other aids

VII. Role-playing / fantasy

VIII. Limitations of perception and communication

IX. Sexual Activity Management

X. Managing other activities

XI. Group sexual activities

XII. Controls

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XIII. Care

XIV. Clothing

XV. Clinician Practices

XVI. Services

XVII. Torture

XVIII. Activities with water

XIX. Taking photographs or video

XX. Exterior modification

XXI. Excuses

XXII. Hanging

XXIII. Rituals

PUBLIC PERFORMANCES

This is followed by a section that gives space for the submissive to show why they should be accepted into training.

• How do you envision training?
• Why you should be accepted for training (minimum 10 sentences).

Attachments

• Full figure photo – nude (face may be covered)
• List of all the gadgets you own.

BASIC RULES in a D/s relationship

• Mrs./Mrs. is always thanked for everything!
• Mr./Ms. is always thanked and written humble letters!
• The Lord is never lied to!
• The slave willingly and honestly obeys the commands of his/her Lord/Lord!

Punishment Code for Naughty Submissives – BDSM Inspiration

The following are the main principles that a domestic and criminal code for slaves should contain.

In the case where we decide to elaborate a domestic penal code, it is advisable to elaborate a much more detailed form of the code, where the individual punishments (e.g., the way of spanking, the number of strokes for certain offenses), as well as the daily schedule of work duties, visitation duties, etc., will be defined. The details of the penal code are always related individually to the needs of the Lord and the slave in question.

Specific Criminal BDSM Code

1. The following criminal code (hereafter referred to as the code) is binding on the slave. The slave is required to follow the provisions listed in the Order at all times, unless they conflict with the actual orders of the Master.
2. A slave girl is required to treat her Master with proper respect at all times.
3. A ward shall at all times, unless otherwise directed by the Lord, use the prescribed titles when addressing her Lord.
4. The ward may speak only when questioned or in the case of a serious situation. The Lord always decides what constitutes a grave situation.
5. The ward is obliged to greet her Lord according to his actual instructions.
6. The Handmaid is obliged to be naked at all times in the environment of the house.
7. The Handmaid is obliged to assume the required position on the orders of her Lord.
8. The Handmaid shall be at the disposal of her Lord at all times for the purpose of carrying out the orders of the Lord.
9. The confinement of a conjugal woman in the presence of her Lord shall be limited to kneeling.
10. The slave girl must execute the imposed permanent and current commands without hesitation and without error.
11. If the slave is disobedient, executes a given command incorrectly, or at the whim of the Master, the slave may be punished at any time and in any way.
12. The choice, manner and execution of the test is always determined by the Master.
13. Slaves are not allowed to resist punishment.
14. The slave is obliged to give thanks for any punishment.
15. If a slave is punished by beating, she must not cry out.
16. A slave girl shall always behave as instructed by her Master when visiting. As a rule, a slave is expected to treat visitors in the same manner as she treats her Master.

LIST: tasks and punishments for slave training

Our idea is to make these tasks into a downloadable spreadsheet rated by task/punishment difficulty 1-10, for example, with filtering on the BDSM erotic aids used, a printable draft slave contract, …

Or perhaps in the form of a simple but challenging board game (there isn’t one in the Czech Republic yet). Currently, we want to regularly expand this list according to our imagination, experience and ideas of our readers. Surely we have forgotten some fun challenges and challenging punishments.

Complementing this taskbook is a punitive house rule (see below) that can be set up for 24/7 BDSM relationships – or even lighter variations of D/s cohabitation.

The tasks and punishments for the humiliated man are quite clearly focused on his manhood, his torment, his very sensitive asshole, and of course on obeying his Mistress. She should always be satisfied with his performance and task completion. Otherwise, he’s gonna take a beating.

Tasks for a slave

• Sub must fill out a questionnaire regarding practice, tasks, and BDSM boundaries = basis for slave contract.
• Sub and 2 Mistresses with strapons – sub on all 4 must dodge pin 1. Mistress towards the front where the other strapon is waiting for him…. and this in turn must move away towards the other one.
• Blindfolded and must recognize what toy is being used on him – if wrong, punishment follows.
• Bindfolded and must count and mistake the number of blows he receives to the body.
• Training the deep throat – sub must handle as many inches (or the entire specific toy) as the Mistress wishes.
• Training the asshole – sub must manage as many cm (or the whole specific toy) as Mistress wishes.
• Training sub’s resistance – clamps on nipples or trap on testicles and testing how much weight she can bear until she begs for release.
• Suspension, vacuum pump and practicing how much more magnification the sub can take.
• Testing how long the sub can stand not breathing while having the ass/pussy of the Mrs. on its face. 10s, 20s, 30s, 1min, …
• Locked in a chastity belt and teased with a massage head – must last until Mistress allows orgasm.
• tied wrists, butt plug filled and has to play in front of Mistress, but has to hold out with orgasm until she says so.
• Wrists tied to ankles and lying on stomach = must delay orgasm as long as possible = prostate irritation, ass massage, ball gagging makes it harder for him.
• Tied his wrists at his thighs and the counterpart sits on his face and smothers him with his lap or ass and has to lick until Mistress comes.
• Sub has to drive to the arranged place – naked.

Punishments for a slave

• Lock the sub in chastity belt – for 1, 2, 7 or more days depending on the severity of the offence.
• Punishment of the sub with feminization of the Mistress’s choice.
• Mummification of the sub using food foil.
• By a specific date, the sub must write an erotic short story describing the punishment.
• Travelling with a Wartenberg wheel around the place(s) the Mistress chooses and for how long.
• After the given time, the slave must be gagged and lick Mistress until she is satisfied.
• After a delayed/abusive orgasm, the slave must lick cum from wherever Mistress says – shoes, belly, bowl/glass, …
• Punishing the sub with hot wax or ice on a spot of Mistress’s choosing.
• Sub must wear a sign of submission in public… collar/choker, pouta, … women’s underwear as part of feminization.
• Sub must have a burning candle tucked in her anus for a given amount of time, dripping wax around as punishment.
• Lending a sub to another dominant for a predetermined amount of time with specific boundaries – the sub still remains the property of the Mistress.
• Piss on Mistress’s chosen body part.
• Popping her body with insulting signs: i’m your bitch, fuck me here, open my ass, …
• Sub becoming an object for a given time in the form of an uncomfortable static position – a footstool, …
• Solid cold shower to cool down a naughty sub and his horniness.
• Shot the sub without orgasm thanks to milking – stimulation via prostate (suitable when locked in the waistband).
• Locking the sub into a wire cage for the selected Mistress time.
• Rape the sub’s ass with a strapon – in a pre-selected position/binding.
• Enema to soak the ass, give the sub a peg and let him cum for as long as possible… ideally in the shower…
• Tieing penis and varlat and delaying orgasm – 1x, 2x, 3x – depending on the need to punish the sub.
• Wrist at the trapeze, between his legs split and torment him with clamps and weights on braces and a parachute on his testicles.
• All 4 of them impaled on a dildo (pressed against the wall/floor of the shower, for example) and forced to lick/smoke the counterpart.
• Tie his balls to the heater via a parachute and sit down far enough to keep them taut and force Mistress to lick them.
• On all fours, with collar on leash and collar with tail – walking around the room or carrying Mistress on his back – can be spurred on with whip across his bottom if Mistress finds the pace slow.
• Putting a humbler on his balls and forcing the sub on all fours to carry Mistress around the room – he may be whipped on the butt or immobilized balls if he is slow.
• Setting up a profile on an erotic dating site (like Amateur) and posting erotic photos of him (in a lighter version without his face).
• Subik gets 10 slaps – at Ms. Kam’s discretion and the number increases according to the offence.
• Clothes pegs or clamps tied with string = for penis, nipples, body – for more punishment take them all off with a tug thanks to the intertwined string.
• Take advantage of the power (and insidiousness) of social networking – Twitter, Amateurs, … Or photo in the chastity belt, and for every interaction (like, retweet, comment), extend the sub’s lock. For greater spread, don’t forget the hashtag #chastitychallenge

Slave

For submissives, we’re focusing on tormenting (if you want to train) all the erogenous zones – boobs, pussy, and buttocks are immediately obvious (and on the chopping block).

Tasks for the sub

• Sub must either moan loudly or be quiet during play – the opposite behaviour is of course punishable!
• Sub must train her asshole herself in front of the Master, starting on the smallest diameter and ending on a toy chosen in advance by the Master.
• Training the deep throat – the sub must master as many inches (or the entirety of a particular toy/penis) as the Lord wishes.
• Training the sub’s resistance – clamps on nipples or labia and testing how much weight she can take until she begs for release.
• Butt training – the sub must handle as many inches (or the whole of a particular toy) as the Master wishes.
• Binded blindfolded and must recognize what toy is being used on her, otherwise punishment.
• Dog will be blinded (mask, blindfold, … over eyes) and must count and fail to count the number of blows (e.g., whip, punches, palm, …) she receives on her body.
• Testing, how long a sub can hold her breath with the Lord’s penis in her mouth. 10s, 20s, 30s, 1min, …
• The challenge is to gradually master fisting the sub’s gusset – gloved, slowly and with the sub’s release
• Satisfying massage of the Master’s prostate using fingers or appropriate toys.
• Filling out a detailed questionnaire regarding practices, punishments and boundaries for later use = for a slave contract.
• The girl must drive to the agreed location – naked.

Punishments for the slave

• hook in her ass, tied to her collar, and tested to see how much she can stretch while blowing her Master’s penis and get the hook deeper into her ass.
• Carrying outdoor balls in your pussy all day.
• Daily wearing an inserted anal pin.
• Remote-controlled egg in pussy and a walk outside with the Lord.
• Dripping hot wax on nipples, breasts, clit – not massage but bdsm wax.
• Enema to soak the ass, give the sub a pin and let her cum for as long as possible… ideally in the shower…
• Sensory deprivation – leather mask or eye mask and headphones – she doesn’t know what’s coming next, how the Lord will get hold of her and punish her (there’s always something to punish).
• Nipple/labia clamps and adding weights until the sub promises xyz to take the weight off.
• By a specific date, the submissive slave must write an erotic short story describing the punishment and tasks.
• Traversing the Wartenberg Wheel around the place(s) the Master chooses and for what length of time.
• The girl must herself ask the Lord for double penetration.
• After a given time, the female must spider gag and suck the Lord until he is satisfied.
• On all 4 straddling the dildo (pressed against the wall/floor of the shower for example) and forced to lick/smoke the counterpart.
• In public, a female dog must wear a sign of submission – collar/choker, pouta, …
• The dog must have a burning candle inserted in her anus/pussy for a given period of time, which will drip wax as punishment.
• Lending the sub to the other dominant for a predetermined time with specific boundaries – the sub still remains the property of the Lord.
• The sub becomes furniture for a given time in the form of an uncomfortable static position – a footstool for example.
• Double penetration by own power with selected toys from the Lord.
• Piss on a body part chosen by the Lord.
• Body piercing with offensive writing: I’m your bitch, fuck me here, open my ass, …
• A solid cold shower to cool down a naughty submissive and her horniness.
• Locking the submissive into a wire cage for a time of the Master’s choosing.
• Setting up a profile on an erotic dating site (such as Amateurs) and publishing her erotic photos (in a lighter version without her face).
• The girl will receive 10 slaps – at the pleasure of the Lord where and the number will increase according to the offence.
• Slut must lick cum from wherever the Lord says – shoes, belly, bowl/glass, … and repeatedly.
• Clothes pegs (or clips) tied with string = on breasts, nipples, lap – for more punishment, take them off at once with a jerk.
• Measure the height of the sub’s lap from the ground and stretch the rope in the space to the same height, with small or larger knots on it. The punishment for the sub is to have this rope on her pussy and have to walk back and forth over these knots.
• A variant on the knotted rope (see bullet above) is the so-called rope panties. These have one or more strands of rope stretched across the vagina and buttocks, with knots in appropriate places. These fit precisely over the clitoris, vaginal entrance and the ass. These panties are uncomfortable to wear, so the punishment is to wear them under clothing in conjunction with, for example, ordinary walking.

More BDSM challenges, scenarios and punishments? Are we missing any?

Can you think of any more challenging punishments or even tasks (those are harder to come up with) for our naughty subs and subgirls? Let us know your experiences with dressage of live toys in the comments. We’ll put every quality idea on our spreadsheets so that other submissives have more “fun” evenings, nights, and keven days 🙂

Author

Peter

Chief-in-editor and founder

Chief-in-editor and founder of Lascero.com magazine - he is interested in unconventional toys that take the perception of sex play to new levels. As a D/s, if you want to switch, he enjoys sex from all possible sides and angles. He wants to get rid of sexuality from the unnecessary taboo that has been ingrained in the Czech basin for decades. And hopefully he succeeds...

Your opinions 4 opinions

Hello I wanted to ask if you sell BDSM aids thank you in advance

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Mišulka

9.6.2020

Hi, sorry, but we don’t sell any products on Lascero.com, we are just a review/testing portal. But we can recommend these online retailers from whom we also take toys for review and for our own use: https://www.lascero.com/slovnicek/bdsm/#kde-nakupovat-bdsm-pomucky

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Peter

9.6.2020

My boyfriend loves to piss on me after he fucks my ass. Then I suck him off when he wants (and that he always wants). I love being able to swallow his cum and piss. I’m his bitch…

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Peter

28.5.2019

Everyone loves something different…

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Peter

28.5.2019

Well…this is disappointing for me since anal and breast weights are probably the only thing you can think of…like yeah I get it…vanilla sex but this is a bit boring for a BDSM article. Plus the collar is worn by every basic bitch nowadays and as a goth I wear it daily 😀 very little choice for couples who don’t like anal. A palette without colours so to speak. As a punishment, one doesn’t have to use it just to plow the other or have something shoved in the anal. There’s bondage, making the man a footrest… I’m quite amused that you mentioned piss fetish but no other… what about blood fetish, foot fetish or any other? You yourself wrote about how many there are… Simply a disappointment from a great blog

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Nikol

21.2.2019

Have a nice day,

thank you for your feedback, which we take to heart. 🙂 I’m sure we still have a lot of room for improvement, it was the first version that had a bigger problem than diversity for us, namely inconsistency and unsortability (no filtering, just bulleted text). We’ll work on it for sure, we just had a resty in the reviews now. And we have just mentioned positional penalties (aka footrest) 😉

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Peter

22.2.2019

How long can milking be done?

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Peter

14.2.2019

Have a nice day,

basically, there’s nothing harmful about milking, so it can be done as long as it’s enjoyable 🙂

And that’s even if you mean any of the definitions of “milking”, aka:

“milking” the penis in a situation where the man is on all fours like a cow,
specific irritation of the prostate for ejaculation without orgasm (suitable for a man in the chastity belt who doesn’t want to be given a nice orgasm by the Mistress),
“milking” a lactating woman and thus increasing her lactation.
In any case, milking is fine.

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Peter

14.2.2019