Only the right use of the fingers can do complete wonders with a ladies wedgie. It will extend the experience of foreplay and the final act many times over.
How to tease a woman and give her an orgasm
The following advice is more like a recommendation, every woman is different and therefore every woman will like different touches. Some are intense and fast, others are gentle and slow. It is important that your partner is sufficiently excited before any finger practice (if her vagina is not moistened enough, she may find the touch of your fingers uncomfortable or even painful). Or how to tease a woman we will show you in steps.
For the clitoris we have just the thing… friction = HINT
The most arousing place on a woman’s body is the clitoris.
- Apply a small amount of lubricating gel to your fingers.
- Use circular motions to gently stimulate your partner’s clitoris.
- Start slowly and gradually increase the speed as the arousal builds.
- Over the eye, you can observe her reactions to changes in speed or intensity.
Another option for clitoral teasing is friction. Again, you put a small amount of lubricating gel on your fingers, grasp the clitoris from both sides, and rub it gently.
Lessons learned pay off
A special way of stimulating the vagina is called teaching the clock.
- And use lubricating gel here.
- Feel the entrance to your vagina and try to imagine that an imaginary twelve is painted just below your clitoris (like on a classic clock).
- Travel your finger approximately 1 cm deep and lightly stroke, massage, tease or tickle your girlfriend’s imaginary twelve.
- After a few minutes, move a little to the right as if you were going to number 1, then continue to 2, etc. until you reach 12 again.
- You can repeat the whole round of the clock several times.
- Individual transitions between numbers should take no more than 2 minutes, the massage itself could then become painful.
If you are one of the owners of long fingers, definitely do not insert your fingers into the vagina whole. It might even be painful for your partner.
The oral method is also effective
If you want a more intense method for your partner, try teasing her clitoris with your mouth. With the help of the tongue, you will surely achieve maximum arousal in your partner very quickly. You can use your tongue to circle the clitoris gently or even more intensively, varying the direction of your tongue.
You can also use a toy to help you
You don’t just have to torture your clitoris with your fingers or mouth, but you can help yourself (for example, if you’re already sore from a demanding partner) with a handy toy. Ideal for the clitoris is to use toys like the clitoral vibrator or new teasers like the Womanizer or Satisfyer. All of these toys fit great on the vagina and the orgasm won’t wait too long 🙂
What are your most tried and tested ways of teasing your partner? Are you better at it than us? Show off in the comments.
Your opinions 10 opinions
Have a nice day,
I don’t know how big your kids are, but I assume they’re not babies who need to be with their mommy 24 hours anymore, and maybe there’s someone who can watch them. So I’m thinking you could change the environment and go away for a weekend with your wife. A change of scenery and a break might give your wife a taste for sex.
Also, it occurs to me if your wife doesn’t want to talk about sex, ask her how you can help her to not be so tired. With less to worry about, she’ll probably have more time for you and her partner’s life.
Have a nice day,
I don’t know how big your kids are, but I assume they’re not babies who need to be with their mommy 24 hours anymore, and maybe there’s someone who can watch them. So I’m thinking you could change the environment and go away for a weekend with your wife. A change of scenery and a break might give your wife a taste for sex.
Also, it occurs to me if your wife doesn’t want to talk about sex, ask her how you can help her to not be so tired. With less to worry about, she’ll probably have more time for you and her partner’s life.
My girlfriend never comes at all during sex and I can rub her for an hour and a half in several different positions and nothing happens. But I make up for it orally with a vibrator with my fingers etc… and the best is done when I stimulate both vagina and anus at the same time…. I think everyone has to find his own way to reach orgasm…
We fully agree – it’s just that the partner is not vaginally aroused, but clitorally, so she will only fully enjoy it with the teasing of the dude/boyfriend 🙂 Thank you for your kind comment.
This may be a silly question, but how much does the penis measure?
It’s stupid, but I don’t want to worry.
it is impossible to say, every woman is original – but it ranges from 7-12 cm – thanks to the fact that it is more flexible it can accommodate a longer penis.
2.5 to …. is flexible enough for a baby to get through.
Hello, my partner is very shy. The most I could do was fondle her breasts (through her bra). I have never seen her pussy. What should I do?
Have a nice day,
don’t push her, you could block her for good. Slowly let her know your intentions, stroke her, give her a gentle massage, don’t worry = she will open up in time and that may not be enough.
my girlfriend only comes orally how do I make her come during normal sex????
Good day, during oral teasing there is often a lot of emphasis on the vagina – do you also pay attention to it during oral?
If so, you will have to tease your vagina during conventional sex, for example with your fingers, a suitable position or an erotic toy – your partner is probably “clitorally” aroused and not “vaginally” aroused – ironically, this is quite common, so she is no different from most girls.
Yes, I tried to break it, but it didn’t help, no matter what I did.
Hi, my lover has a big problem to reach orgasm and he has a pretty big pussy on me ,( even though he is young ) so I am considering we vibe. Can you recommend it? Or do you prefer a classic vibrator? Thank you very much for the info… Can it be used for men as an anal toy?
Hi, the size of the pussy doesn’t have much influence on orgasm – most girls reach it through teasing the vagina anyway, and the we-vibe is ideal for that. Then it just depends which one you choose – we tested both the 2nd and 4th generation and I’d recommend the latest one – remote control and better shape.
Hello,please I wanted to ask, I’ve had a sex life for a couple of years now,and I still don’t orgasm,it always comes right before it passes,it bothers me a lot. Yesterday I had sex with my partner and my partner came and I felt a tingle in my legs and a tremor in my legs after sex. Can I ask if it was or wasn’t the org. And how or what should I do ? Thank you in advance for the answer…
Hello, if you’re younger and have only been having sex for a few years, it’s not necessarily your fault (or even your partner’s fault for not paying enough attention to your sensitive spots – not all women find classic sex without clitoral stimulation the way to climax, and of course the opposite is true).
Orgasm is usually described by partners as a sudden surge of energy/pleasure from the lap that spills over into the whole body and can really end up with trembling and shaking of the legs, arms, whole body…
The girl orgasm also varies in intensity as well, so it could be the first climax – it usually helps to get to know yourself, figure out what feels good to you specifically (there’s no one-size-fits-all guide) and then share that with your partner who can focus on that.
Hello and how do I satisfy my partner from 15 cm penis – I am in my partner to the end and no orgasm except when I finger or lick her clitoris advise me what to do. I would like to ask you : if my partner has no thyroid gland and she has taken Euthyrox pills and is taking 125 to 150 mg we already have one child and we would like to have one more this summer I am 39 and my girlfriend is 40 is there any chance to get pregnant so far thank you very much goodbye . Pavel
Have a nice day,
But penis length is not at all related to female orgasm – only about 10% of women are able to have sex during a classic intercourse – the remaining women (i.e. a large part) reach orgasm only by teasing the clitoris and other erogenous zones. So don’t feel bad that it’s not “just” sex – it’s a common misconception that spoils the mood much more, as well as the sex itself and possibly the relationship.
I can’t comment on the second query – that’s a question for a specialist doctor, who I’m sure will be happy to help you with that.
Hi, the main question is whether a fist in the vagina can cause other problems if all the instructions for fisting are followed???
If you don’t go through the pain, don’t – the mucous membrane is very elastic, but you have to relax it = after all, a 3 kg baby will pass through it during birth.
Oh, and I forgot (although it’s in the fisting instructions) – filed short nails and no rings or bracelets are important.
CHTĚL JSEM JI LÍZAT KUNDIČKU,ALE BYLO JI TO NEPŘÍJEMNÉ.V ČEM JSEM UDĚLAL CHYBU?NEMÁ JI VYHOLENOU,ALE JE STEJNĚ KRÁSNÁ.
Některé ženy milují klasiku, některé anál a některé prostě nesnáší, když je “tam dole” laskáme rty. Stejně tak hodně žen nerado kouří – bohužel, není na to žádný návod, do žen nikdo nevidí (a je to dobře, aspoň se máme o co celý život snažit), takže když si postaví hlavu, tak máme smůlu. V tomhle případě má ale smůlu spíše ona.