Just about everyone knows that a blog is a web application containing posts by a single author. But do you know how the word came about? It’s a contraction of the two English words “web log”, which can be translated into Czech as “web log, notebook”. The term “weblog” was reportedly coined by a certain Jorn Barger in December 1997. However, the term seemed too long, so another internet wizard, Peter Merholz, shortened it to “blog”. Reportedly in April or May 1999, he split the word “weblog” into the phrase “we blog” in the navigation bar of his weblog. Another interesting fact is that “weblogger,” shortened to “blogger,” has an even shorter Czech form with a single “g”—“bloger.” But enough lecturing.
A playful fox who likes to provoke by tying herself up
In the case of a blog, it is a diary, a personal journal, sometimes even that of a company. Each post is dated, and it is also possible to add a comment. People write about all sorts of things, but in the case of Rozverná Liška, the diary is teeming with more sensitive topics. Perhaps that is why there is talk of a sex blogger. The author of these spicy descriptions of sexual experiences, who is only nineteen years old, arrived at the meeting wearing a black top hat, dressed in a black suit, with heavily made-up eyes. But the mood wasn’t dark. On the contrary. Judge for yourself!
How did you become a sex blogger?
I responded to a call from the lascero.cz website, which stated that they were looking for sex bloggers. I’ve been writing for a long time; I’ve had my own blog since around sixth grade. I enjoyed blogging, but then I stopped for a while. This call for submissions really appealed to me, though, because sexuality is an interesting topic. I told myself I could give it a shot; I’m sure I’d be good at it. Plus, I liked that I could combine it with what I do, which is photography.
What, you work as a photographer?
No, on the contrary, as a model.
And what else do you do for a living?
I studied graphic design, but unfortunately it didn’t turn out very well. I don’t have a steady job; I do odd jobs so I can keep up with my hobbies.
Sex is a somewhat sensitive topic. Aren’t you afraid that being too open might backfire on you?
Honestly, it depends on the circles you move in. And I move in a community of friends who are pretty open-minded. I’m getting used to it.
Which topic has interested you the most lately?
I don’t know if I’d say it’s interested me, but I’ve noticed that the most popular topic on sex blogs is everything related to dominatrixes. It’s been the most discussed topic lately. But I understand why. Where there’s demand, there’s supply…
Why did you choose the nickname “Playful Fox”?
Because I have a soft spot for foxes. One day I got myself an anal plug with a fox tail and I started having a lot of fun with it. So I told myself, well, foxes are probably going to be my passion, plus I like fur.
And how satisfied are you with the plug?
Wonderful. I’d been looking for it for a few months. And I didn’t want just any plug, but one with that fox tail! I refused to settle for anything synthetic. Another issue was the dildo’s material. I didn’t want plastic! And I wasn’t exactly keen on rubber or silicone either. Then I stumbled upon something that caught my eye. It was perfect! So soft (like most fox fur) and cool! I started cuddling up to it. I felt a bit crazy. But never mind, I simply can’t resist fur. And that wasn’t all. I was trembling all over! And after a while, I was even getting wet. It was clear to me that the tail would become my excellent sexual partner. Not just during masturbation, but during sex itself! And sure enough, it’s great for sex. Partners praise the fact that the vagina then tightens and thus wraps more tightly around the penis. Which, of course, suits them. Some like to play with it. They tease me by sliding it in and out. Thanks to its shape, it’s a very different feeling than with classic anal sex.
So you dedicated your first blog post to using an anal plug. I was surprised by the vivid description not only of the technical aspects but especially of the feelings you experienced. Where did you get your gift for writing?
To tell you the truth, I hated reading and writing until fourth grade, so my Czech was poor. Fortunately, there were teachers who taught me how to write essays.
How did you get into shibari?
My first photographer got me into it. I was supposed to model some lingerie. You know how it is—I was a girl who needed money fast. Well, it went so far that I ended up tied up and suspended from the ceiling. That’s when I realized it was interesting, but that it hurt…
What kind of technique is it, exactly?
It’s one of the tying techniques, in BDSM it falls under bondage; in other words, it’s a Japanese bondage technique. But in the case of shibari, it is more of an art. It’s not just about taking a piece of rope and tying someone up. Both the binder and the bound person must derive pleasure from it. Quality shibari should be an art in many ways, not only in the tying itself, but also in the preparation and the use of the ropes. For example, the rope cannot be too thin, so it doesn’t cut into the skin. It’s better to use cotton rope because it’s soft and won’t burn the skin. Of course, there are also those who prefer jute or hemp. But for the person being tied, it can be uncomfortable, painful…
Are there any exhibitions or workshops?
Yes, there are. For example, I myself went to the Rope Spirit event, which focuses on shibari and takes the form of a theater performance, which I really enjoyed. It is held twice a year. They showcase not only shibari techniques and classic bondage, but also the original Japanese methods used for disarming. The next event is scheduled for June 17 at the P. M. Club in Prague.
So you’ve sort of “found yourself”?
You could describe it that way, with just one change. I reached a point where there was—and still is—no one to tie me up. So I started tying myself up. Which is what I’m experimenting with now.
Where did the photographer of your latest photos discover you?
He just reached out to me. Out of the blue… I wondered for a while how he found me. Then I realized that it was because of my comments on other blogs. I really enjoy reading online, and when an article makes an impression on me, I’m not afraid to leave a comment. And in the case of photographer Petr Jedinák’s blog, it got a positive response.
So all we had to do was set a date…
Something like that. His apartment captivated me with the photographs on display. And Petr? He’s such a laid-back guy. We chatted about all sorts of things, including my hobby—self-shibari. He said you don’t see that very often, so half the shoot was dedicated to just that. In addition to the tying, he asked if I could handle being suspended as well. I’d never suspended myself before, so it was a big challenge. And the reality? I was captivated by it, seriously.
But it didn’t stop at suspension…
Yes, I also tried to photograph an orgasm. First through masturbation, then with my beloved dildo—the Fox.
Let’s get back to BDSM. Are there other techniques you prefer?
No. There aren’t any others. Still, I love discovering new things. If someone has something to offer me, I’ll give it a try. I’m the kind of person who isn’t afraid to try anything new.
In your blog, you describe your experience with a massage wand, so do you like shopping at sex shops?
Sex shops have captivated me, especially the wide variety of sex toys, but I prefer reading reviews. And because I enjoy reading them, I enjoy writing them when I have the chance.
In other posts, you describe having sex in a car, taking nude photos alone or with a sub, and you also talk about attending swinger parties and analyze the quality of erotic party games. You could make a living as a reviewer… What do you think?
I have no idea. I can’t imagine anyone paying me for that. It’s not a problem to get something for free, or to get into an event without paying admission, because you meet a lot of interesting people who can help you…
There are many online shops offering an endless variety of sex toys. It’s often hard for customers to navigate through them all. And that’s where reviews could help with the selection process. Just like with well-known comparison sites such as heureka.cz or zbozi.cz.
I’ll cover something similar on my blog as well. I should be receiving another type of massage head soon, so I’ll have something to compare.
How do the people around you react to your hobbies?
Everyone who isn’t afraid to ask knows, as I’ve said. I have no problem admitting anything. But it’s funny that my friends try to scare my parents by saying they know a girl who writes like this and lets herself be photographed naked. And those parents usually respond with: “So what, she has a hobby. As long as she doesn’t drag you into it, we don’t care.” I always start laughing, because most of the people who say this would actually like to date me, have some fun…
The posts have a static layout, with text interspersed with photos taken by professional photographers or, in some cases, with my own help. What about video reviews? Would you be open to something like that? Especially in the age of sites like youtube.com or stream.cz, where you can find live tutorials on just about anything?
I probably wouldn’t be against it. But a camera with video capabilities is still out of my reach. That’s a pretty expensive thing.
Would you be able to advise your friends if they had a sexual problem?
Not only do they come to me, but they also send emails. I enjoy writing to them because I find it fun, and I know I have something to share with them thanks to my experiences. And it’s nice when someone reaches out, or as they say nowadays—when there’s feedback.
How did you celebrate March 14th, which is an international day called Steak and Blowjob Day, when a partner cooks her boyfriend a nice steak and then performs fellatio?
Honestly, I have to admit that I had no idea such a day existed.
So you don’t even know about holidays like International Lingerie Day, International No-Panties Day, and International Orgasm Day?
I don’t know, but it’s very inspiring. And if one of my friends happens to suggest it, I won’t object to such a celebration.
What is your general opinion on the use of sex toys?
Definitely positive. They’re a lot of fun, especially if you’re not afraid to be creative. People shouldn’t be afraid of them.
Can you recall an unconventional place where you’ve had sex?
I’ll surprise you a bit—nothing seems unconventional to me anymore.
What do you think of the new profession of sexual assistant for people with disabilities?
I haven’t heard much about it. I just caught a glimpse of something on this topic in the movie The Intouchables. In that movie, something similar was done by massaging the earlobes of a paralyzed man, who reached orgasm. Otherwise, I think it’s wonderful that these assistants have the gift to devote themselves to this work. They’re actually doing a good deed.
They say everyone is a little bit gay, that even straight men enjoy anal play. What do you think?
That’s definitely true. I have experience with that. But to tell you the truth, I wouldn’t consider it a gay thing. There’s nothing wrong with discovering other pleasurable activities for the body.
What do you think about swingers’ clubs?
I have nothing against what they do. It’s well thought out. Club members know each other, and they’ve been vetted. That way, they can trust each other more easily. Unfortunately, I also have a negative experience from a similar party where that wasn’t the case. I was forced to be more reserved, and as a result, I didn’t enjoy it as much.
Do you have a partner?
Right now no.
And if you did happen to have one, what kind of lingerie would you use to turn him on?
Definitely not with lingerie. I hang out with friends with whom I have regular sexual contact, and I know that different things work for different people. Sometimes all it takes is knowing how to touch someone to get them turned on…
On the other hand? What turns you on about your partner?
It has to be something typical for that partner. For example, if he works in an office, I like it during sex when his work shirt is fluttering on him… With another guy, I like it when he’s naked and wearing only socks. Just the way he rubs up against me is enough—it’s like a cat coming to me, and I love that. I really enjoy that.
I don’t really get that. Can you explain it to me in more detail?
It’s enough for your partner to come up from behind and start gently rubbing against you. But discreetly—slowly and gently. Another person might shudder, or feel a chill run down their spine. But it puts me in a trance…
What do you think of Dr. Plzák’s statement that sex accounts for eighty percent of a successful marriage?
It’s definitely true. It doesn’t work without sex. If someone claims it does, I reject that. There will always be a certain desire that is irreplaceable.
Any experience with threesomes, with a girl?
I’ve had a threesome; otherwise, I’ve dated several women. Although I’ve been more afraid of women lately.
You say “dated”? Does that mean, for example, that you shared a household with a lesbian?
Yes.
So can we say you’re bisexual?
Yes, you could say that. But I’ve also heard the opinion that it will pass eventually. So far, that hasn’t happened. So far, I can’t lean toward the heterosexual or homosexual side. It seems to me that being bisexual is trendy these days.
Can you handle a broken sex toy? Or can you just change the batteries?
It depends on the item. With some, it’s possible; with more complicated ones, probably not. If you’re smart, you have a manual at home and follow it, or you know how to look up advice online.
And speaking of resourcefulness. Can you quickly make a makeshift toy if the one from the sex shop isn’t handy?
Well, I could make it, but I probably wouldn’t use it, because it isn’t very hygienic. I’m afraid of infections. And I also tell myself I can get by without it. After all, I have a vivid imagination and nimble fingers…
What kind of post do you plan to add to your blog in the near future?
There are plenty of topics. I’d like to write about a photographer friend of mine who’s preparing an exhibition. Its working title is Stitched Vaginas. Stitched together with various decorative piercings.
If you’d like to get to know Rozverná Liška better, check out her blog www.rozvernaliska.cz. Perhaps after reading it, you’ll get the urge to write a similar sex diary. The website www.lascero.cz can provide you with a domain, hosting, and a content management system. This is an anonymous project, so you don’t have to worry about your name being revealed. If you’d also like to test adult sex toys, that’s no problem either. We’d be happy to provide them for you to review. Your blog will gain a large readership thanks to four websites and five social networks. You can also look forward to free admission to various adult events such as markets, festivals, and exhibitions.
The attached photos were taken by Petr Jedinák (http://www.jedinak.cz)
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