In the next few weeks we will be covering a topic on Lascivek that many might be familiar with from Pioneer/Scout – tying and knots. This time, however, it will be about the erotic use of knotting – bondage.
We are preparing a multi-part guide on how to get started with bondage and how to keep it safe for the bound. Instructions for each bondage will be accompanied by detailed photos (including our beautiful figure). You have a lot to look forward to… Especially erotic bondage is an incredibly exciting and visually interesting practice. You can do whatever you want with your restrained counterpart.
For inspiration, check out our regularly updated bondage taskmaster. Of course, you don’t have to just unpleasantly (for them) or painfully punish your counterpart, but you can also gently love or just tease them and let them experience new and (in our experience) even stronger orgasms. It’s all up to your confidence and imagination.
Lascero’s guide to bondage
Today we start with part zero – about safety, the use of ropes/tapes and basic knots you can use in bondage.
Safety is key in erotic bondage
When bondage you must always think about the safety of the bound. Most bondage harnesses are not suitable for longer tie-ups, as they pinch easily and prevent full blood circulation to different parts of the body. The most dangerous bondages are those that go around the neck. We recommend that you avoid these games (they can have just as fatal an end as erotic asphyxia).
We also have a safety recommendation from an experienced Knotties user from Amateurs:
One of the main risks of bondage (ropes, ropes, handcuffs,food. foil,…) is the interruption of blood circulation. Insufficient blood circulation in areas of major arteries and capillaries can lead to serious tissue damage, including tissue death or permanent nerve ending damage. Nerve ending damage can occur even in a very short time, within minutes.
Symptoms of interruption of blood circulation – pain, burning sensation, tingling, numbness of the site, decrease in skin temperature and change in skin colour to pale grey to white or blue to dark purple. If the bound person experiences any of the symptoms, or if you notice a change in skin colour, immediately remove the handcuffs ( ropes) and massage the affected areas until the symptoms disappear. You need to encourage blood circulation.
These risks can be avoided with proper technique and precautions in normal tying: Do not tighten the ties too tightly, especially around the joints (ankles, knees, elbows and wrists), neck and groin – in these areas the arteries and veins are just below the surface of the skin. Especially be careful of tying around the neck – circulation problems can come on very quickly and further injuries can occur due to the tied person possibly passing out. Do not move away from the person being tied and check on them frequently.
If you decide to use a gag or hood, it is a good idea to agree on some way of communicating in advance – in case the problems mentioned above arise. Tighten the handcuffs so that you are able to put 1-2 fingers under them. You should also put at least one finger between your body and the rope. Do not hang anyone without proper knowledge, safe equipment and sufficient anchor points. It is advisable to have another person in the room with you who can help you if you have problems.
Multiply the number of points where the pressure or stretch will be applied, this will distribute the weight over a larger area. In the case of ropes – wrap them around your limbs and body several times. For rope nets, and different types of bindings, add knee slings, elbow, shoulder, waist and thigh slings. The more you distribute the pressure, the better the person being tied will enjoy it and the safer it will be.
Make sure you know how to release the ropes safely, in what order. Use knots you know and always have scissors or a knife ready. Insist that the person tied up informs you immediately of the symptoms and ongoing changes in his/her body (pressure problem, possible fainting,…). Check the temperature or skin colour change in the burdened areas.
Remove the ropes carefully, paying attention to possible burns. If necessary, use a knife or scissors instead – disregard the rope. Once untied, allow the person to get warm and stand on their feet to allow circulation to adjust.
In the first few moments the person may not be able to control their limbs and, even if it seems that nothing can happen, they may fall uncontrollably. Massage the numb areas and provide heat to restore circulation. Allow sufficient time for recovery before proceeding to other activities.
Mainly people please be sensible – communicate constantly with the person being tied up (for beginners this can avoid a possible panic attack). Bondage can’t hurt, twitching is not allowed.. have fun! 🙂
What to use for bondage?
For erotic bondage you can use things like handcuffs, trouser belts, scarves, bondage belts, or ropes. Ropes and ropes are, of course, the dominant bondage equipment. Cotton or synthetic ones of various diameters are used. Their use is the most demanding, but the most intense and the bindings always look better than when using handcuffs, scarves or belts.
Handcuffs
The use of handcuffs is clear – on the wrists or ankles. It is restraint rather than “true bondage”. Pouta can also be used for rope considerations. For example, for hogtie (Czech for goatman) where the wrists and ankles are bound behind the back. You can connect them simply with, for example, handcuffs.
We’ve reviewed two types of handcuffs before:Erotic Handcuffs Review – Double Review.
Belts, scarves and shawls
You’ll probably only use panty bands for basic hand and ankle restraint. Scarves and scarves too.
Bondage bands
An interesting alternative to ropes and rope are special bondage belts. They look like regular duct tape on a roll, but they don’t have an adhesive layer. The tape sticks when you “tape” it over itself – it sticks to itself and holds quite a bit. Its advantage is that if you’re careful, you can take it off after playing with it (without tearing hairs) and reuse it again next time.
Ropes and ropes
Ropes are used for single lashings with different diameters and lengths. The various ornaments created by tying will stand out more with stronger ropes, but they cannot be too complex as the tied rope would become a large clump of knots.
The weakest, short-diameter strings are good for intensifying the tightening – you’ll pull the part of the tether that needs to be tightened even more and you neglected when tying it.
We reviewed bondage ropes (along with tape) recently: Review of bondage ropes, ropes and tape. We have also tested cotton ropes in response to many inquiries.
Basic Knots for Bondage
We probably don’t need to show you the classic knot connecting two ropes. It is simply a simple knotl. But with the ambulance knot it gets more complicated. Not everyone knows it. Here’s a video tutorial on how to make one. Anyone can learn it:
We won’t be using any other knots in our bondage tutorial (I can already see the seasoned matadors who knot and tie subs every day cursing and spitting at us), but we won’t be using more.
The most famous Czech riggers and riggers are undoubtedly Joan von Brook and Edna Kinbaku.
What we’ll teach you
In this multi-part bondage tutorial, we’ll cover bondage primarily with ropes and ropes – we’ll also use bondage tape once. We have prepared individual parts for you to learn how to tie:
- 1 – Wrists and Ankles (Basic Tethering)
- 2 – Breasts (rope bra harness)
- 3 – Breasts 2 (Rope Bra Tether)
- 4 – Armbind (more challenging harness)
- 5 – Spider web (more challenging tether)
- 6 – The Jelly Shell (more challenging time)
- 7 – Rope panties (SPECIAL)
For most harnesses, we make do with just a subink, ropes of various lengths and diameters, and bondage tape. In the last tutorial we will show you how bondage can be used to bind and restrain a piece of furniture. You definitely have something to look forward to!
Lascivní.cz is not responsible for any health consequences that may result from improper procedures, failure to follow safety rules and other externalities.
Your opinions 5 opinions
It makes me wish to release her, direct her to the bed in the position that
is my favourite, and it makes me intend to take her, to groan with her.
It makes me wish to pump her till my cock pulsates and unloads my cozy bumped into her
face.
Many poke fun at the idea when someone claims I am going to Leash train my Servant
or Passive. The truth is, if the 2 are extremely significant concerning the way of life.
The chain can have a fantastic influence on the Slave/ Submissive.
Equally as the Collar has a fantastic emotional influence, once it is placed around the
neck.
Read More Bdsm Collar And Leash SetThe Master would teach commands not with words but with motions of the chain. Drawing down on the chain shows you wish for your own to stoop,
drawing up indicates you wish for them to stand.
This is to guarantee he has complete control. Showing the servant the different motions without speaking is not as
very easy as it appears. You are educating the Slave/Submissive to follow
on your commands without talking. It would be nearly the like Horse training.
Any type of training for that matter you as the Leading needs to
stay constant in your training.
To take it one action farther You can make use of cuffs, behind their back.
The commands are a lot like the commands you
would certainly give if you use servant placements in your partnership – pink leash and collar bdsm.
A few days ago Arianna and also I was speaking as well as I was going to alter the method she greeted
me. She did greet me on knees curved forward with arms stretched out
face down. I instructed her I now desired slave position # 2
The very same but facing away from me hands on ass spreading apart.
submissive male walked on leash bdsm.
A few days ago Arianna and also I was speaking as well as I was going to transform the
way she welcomed me. She did welcome me on knees bent onward with arms extended face
down. I advised her I now wanted servant position # 2 The same however dealing with away from me hands on butt
spreading apart.
In the initial position she really felt more like a servant and also described while because position she had
a large grin on her face since I was residence, as well as she could not wait to see me.
After we spoke I made that change. It truly makes Arianna happy to stoop as well as wait for me to go through
the door.
While chain training when you are talking all eyes must be on you.
You can tell when somebody is listening and also
when they are not and also you make the modifications with a slight pull
on the Chain.
People took photos yet nobody claimed anything.
I did not really expect any remarks, but during bike week I have actually seen means crazier shit than some
bitch wearing a collar as well as leash. You
might not wish to be seen in public, which
is great. I have not providing much idea to training Arianna with a Leash.
I have offering it some assumed in the past, and also I might extremely well right here
in the future. The Collar as soon as placed about their neck
gives them a feeling of being full. They have functioned
so difficult to earn. They have providing a lot more in six
months to a year than they have ever offering.
bondage garter belt.
There is method even more than just the sensation of being possessed.
You include the Chain. If the Servant or Submissive is in the right frame of
mind it will take them areas they have never ever been in the past.
Nice
Thank you very much for the compliments. It’s an age-old tying instruction, we would have prepared and photographed (and ideally filmed) it differently and better today.
we are looking for someone who would do a similar bondage for my younger half…
try to look on xbdsm there is a program in Bratislava bound I think in Hopkirk
Thank you for the addition!
Thank you for your interest, but currently we are not in favor of it 🙂 meaning tying up other girls.
ok, thanks for the reply
You’re welcome, I didn’t help you much – don’t give up and keep looking, it’s great fun to knot 🙂
we just don’t have anyone to teach us…
Hello, do you have any instructions for bonadage for a guy?
Hello – not strictly – but part of the harness can also be used for men. For example, we have prepared a specialised guide with photos and procedures for penile/varlate ligation – https://www.lascero.com/navody/jak-spravne-podvazat-varlata-a-penis-navod-i/.