Let’s be honest. We love new experiences, so we seek out friends because there’s more fun to be had with a group. And it’s also been proven that a little attention from someone else always makes us happy and stays with us for a long time. How about spicing up the fun with a little shared eroticism? Maybe by visiting a club that hosts so-called swingers’ parties, evenings with partner swapping.
You’ve surely heard so many positive things about them… But beware of disappointment! Porn movies portray such events in such a fantastical way that you get the impression that muscular male models and beautiful female models gather there. And what’s more? That everyone is “into” each other, performing acrobatic “feats” that defy belief. You’ll instantly forget that you’re watching actors and that everything is scripted.
The truth is, swinger parties don’t actually go down like that. At an event like this, you’ll find people—normal people—just like yourself. People of all professions, ages, and body types, of both genders, with a positive attitude toward sex. Just like at the venue located in the basement of a high-rise building in Prague’s Krč district. It’s called BUNKR and its owner, S., knows from her international experience how to attract the attention of sexually adventurous men and women…
What advice would you give me for my first visit to your club?
It’s best to call the number listed on the website so the staff can let you in. At the entrance, there is a cloakroom with lockers where you can store or put on whatever you deem appropriate or whatever the theme of the evening calls for (swimsuits, masks, erotic lingerie, nudity, etc.). Wear whatever you like and whatever makes you feel most comfortable. Don’t forget your slippers. You can follow the recommendation to wear as little as possible, but you don’t have to.
However, it is practical because if you get carried away in the club, you won’t have to look for your clothes afterward. The decision is always yours. You can always change your (lack of) clothing; the cloakroom is available at any time. Of course, you can leave the club for a short while and return after speaking with the staff, without having to pay the club fee again (for example, if you’re going to pick something up from your car). You’ll lock your locker and keep the key on a lanyard. You’ll pay the club fee at the bar. You can also order refreshments here; just give your number. This is the same as your order slip, which you’ll pay for when you leave the club.
And how do you handle this in the summer, for example, when people sweat a lot? Is there a way to stay clean?
Of course!
And not just in the summer—we recommend visiting the shower and restroom every time before an event. Towels are available for free; you’ll find at least two in every locker, in case you come with a partner… And there’s no need to rush. After showering and drying off, you can relax at the bar and order a drink. While you’re at it, you can get in the mood by watching an erotic video, or massage each other for free with high-quality oils.
Who visits the club?
Members from all regions of the Czech Republic and neighboring countries—we’re no longer just a Prague-based club. The loyalty and trust of our club members compel and motivate us to improve our services. Our sole goal is your absolute satisfaction. Most often, men and women aged 22–50 visit us, which is natural given the trends in active lifestyles.
What is not allowed?
To ensure maximum discretion for our club members, the use of cell phones, cameras, video cameras, tablets, and other recording devices is strictly prohibited throughout the entire club! Please leave all such items in the locker room upon arrival!
What facilities does the club offer?
Everything that makes you feel good. You can try the wellness area with a hot tub, steam or infrared sauna, relaxation pool, and massage table, as well as a dance floor with poles for sensual dancing. There’s also relaxing music on request and several large-screen TVs showing erotic or sports content. In the main room, you can lounge on mats with a good drink, just like at home in your living room.
You’ll also appreciate intimate rooms for adult play… For those who prefer BDSM, we have dark, lockable chambers ready. Some will enjoy spaces with glory holes, but there are also large rooms for group orgies. For play, there is also a gynecological exam table, a massive wooden cross… Internet access is also available.
Since you mentioned the cross, are there any sex toys available?
We don’t sell anything here, but we’ve instructed our members so that they can bring their own toys. After all, it’s difficult to lend something when you can’t be sure it will be returned. Otherwise, we’ve been considering for some time having a display case with toys and special clothing for sale.
How is the club’s security ensured?
To ensure maximum discretion and safety for our members, not everyone is allowed in! Likewise, anyone who does not behave decently and according to the rules may be expelled. We reserve the right to refuse entry to or expel individuals who show signs of severe intoxication, aggression, or indecent behavior.
You mentioned rules. What are they?
1) Our facility is intended for couples, single women, and men. It is mandatory to maintain hygiene and use condoms. We require men to be respectful and tolerant toward couples and women. If someone signals “NO” to you, it is not an insult, but a request. It means that the couple or the woman wants to be left alone. The word “NO” can be used by anyone, regardless of gender, if they do not want something. No one ever has to be a sexual object for everyone in the club, as some mistakenly believe.
2) Women who come alone, or first-timers, need not worry about the men who visit us. Men are subject to rules that they must strictly adhere to. Women on their own or newcomers do not have to do anything they do not want to do. It’s entirely up to you how you enjoy your time here—whether in the hot tub, the sauna, over a glass of wine, or just chatting. The decision to “engage in erotic entertainment” is always yours alone. No one will force you to do anything. Some people may wear masks for discretion.
3) Smoking is permitted only in the designated area. Smoking is not allowed anywhere else! It is also prohibited to bring drinks and food into the rooms intended for sexual play. We ask women to always remove their high-heeled shoes when entering rooms where play takes place. There are mattresses there, and they could easily be damaged. Please bring slippers, also for hygienic reasons. There is no prescribed attire in the rules. A discount on the membership fee is available on the day for certain outfits specified by the program. Only naturist evenings require nudity without exception.
4) Women can wear whatever they like, but they must consider whether they look like they’ve lost their minds. For men, it is necessary to choose clothing that does not have a strongly contraceptive or repulsive effect on women. Tip: A man will not excite a woman with his nudity, but rather deter her. The most practical option is nudity covered by a towel.
5) Married couples and unmarried couples should establish the rules in advance. We do not tolerate arguments in the club. After all, they’re there to have fun, not to fight…
6) It goes without saying that maximum discretion is required of all club members and staff.
7) And finally, a very important rule: visiting a swingers club can improve a relationship. Such a couple will surely discover that spending an evening ironing, watching TV, and surfing the internet is less enjoyable than having fun at the club in the company of good-humored people. It is common for both partners to be pleased by this change from their routine evenings.
What are the admission prices?
Couples who arrive within the first two hours after opening—that is, on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday from 8:00 PM to 10:00 PM (and on Tuesday and Thursday from 7:00 PM to 9:00 PM)—will pay a membership fee of 300 crowns, which includes complimentary drinks at the bar. Couples who arrive later, i.e., after 10:00 p.m. (9:00 p.m.), will also be asked to pay the same membership fee, but without the option of free drinks. We do not require a fee from couples under 25 years of age. The fee always includes FREE use of the hot tub, sauna, clean towels, condoms, and oils for erotic massages, as well as a tasting of the lavishly stocked buffet.
These are the standard prices. What about special events?
That varies. For example, on Friday, when we host the Cuckold Party or the Great Naturist Night, a couple pays 300 CZK, a man pays 800 CZK, and a woman pays just 100 CZK. If the evening’s requirements are met during Saturday’s event (uniform, erotic lingerie, carnival mask, membership on amateri.cz), there is no charge. If you attend the Wednesday event Gangbang, couples pay nothing, and a woman on her own pays 100 CZK with free drinks at the bar.
For Naturist Thursday, couples and men each pay 500 CZK, including free drinks at the bar. It’s also possible to enter a raffle for a voucher for the next session with FREE admission. There’s also a so-called Ladies’ Club Card for 100 CZK, which includes three free admissions to any club event, plus an all-inclusive package—meaning, once again, free alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks and a lavish buffet.
EVERY WEDNESDAY IS FREE FOR ALL COUPLES.
From the above, I have a good idea of what goes on at a swingers party. Are there any misconceptions?
Many people reject swinger events out of ignorance. The problem isn’t their decision, but that to support their stance on why not to attend a swinger event, some use arguments that have nothing to do with reality. But let it be a comfort to many that they are not alone. According to our survey, few people know that a Candaulist party has nothing to do with a scandal; it is a party where a husband or partner offers his wife or partner to other men for play. Furthermore, in the case of a Gangbang event, it is not about a mutual orgy, but about group sex…
Interesting. Can you share some other misconceptions with our readers?
There are quite a few. We mostly draw from the chat on the Amateri.cz server, where we advertise, and from the dating site that we have available on our own website.
1) I have to find a woman for a swingers party so I can come…
This is just as absurd as wanting to go to a restaurant and bringing your own food so you can visit the restaurant and eat. The websites of competing clubs also contribute to this nonsense by forcing single men to find a partner or other couples, otherwise they won’t be admitted. All singles are always welcome here, without exception.2) A woman or couple must be active in the swingers scene and must accept one or two men…
A somewhat desperate and incomprehensible rule of clubs that only host couples-only swingers. We have nothing of the sort here, and in a democracy, it simply cannot exist. Everyone (man or woman) does (or does not do) whatever they want to do (or not do).3) You must call the club several days in advance to make a reservation.
It’s just as absurd as being thirsty right now but having drinks provided in a few days (maybe). Unfortunately, some Czech clubs demand this nonsense and even highlight it in bold on their websites. Maybe they want to give the impression that they’re always full, but it’s more likely that if someone contacts them, there will be an erotic event; otherwise, they simply won’t be open. I also suspect that by requiring advance reservations, they’re censoring the ages of couples. In our club, you’ll never find restrictions or selective screening of guests—everyone is always welcome.With us, you can also be sure that we’ll always be open.
4) I won’t come to your place because you don’t have paid escorts like other clubs do. I’m not going to go hunting for some woman…
This is a complete misunderstanding of what swinging is all about. The person in question is merely revealing a lack of self-confidence; he isn’t even capable of meeting people in real life. You’ll never actually find any paid escorts (who’ll be constantly chasing after him) here. We aren’t a club for desperate people who can’t meet others without financial incentives. We attract confident men who don’t need anything like that, and women who want to be courted a little.5) Couples get cheaper admission than men, so couples have to pay special attention to them at swingers’ events…
At first, we thought this question wasn’t meant seriously, but the reality was quite the opposite. Couples (and individuals within couples) will always pay attention only to whom they want to, and above all, if they want to. If they choose to focus only on themselves, that is their decision alone, and no one will ever try to change it in any way.6) We don’t come to your club because single men also come there…
Here, it’s important to address this in the plural sense, where a man, out of jealousy, makes decisions for his partner without her knowledge. Try to find a woman who truly wants to enjoy swinging but would be annoyed by the attention of multiple men who are genuinely interested in her.7) I paid x crowns for swingers and nothing happened, I didn’t enjoy myself at all…
I’ll try to translate this sentence into plain English. I sat in a corner of the club (while others were having fun) and was too shy to talk to anyone. Instead of striking up a conversation with someone, I kept ordering more and more alcohol to give myself courage. By the time I finally gained a little confidence from the alcohol, the club was closing and everyone was already heading home.8) I’ll have fun with other women, but my partner can only be with me…
This seemingly noble goal of visiting the club will likely fall apart after a few minutes, and the situation will be completely reversed. Unfortunately, all that will remain of the restriction is frustration. After all, everyone has the same rights, and jealousy has no place in the swinger scene. Both partners are supposed to enjoy themselves at the club, and this helps build mutual trust between them.9) I go to swinger clubs alone, but my partner isn’t allowed to…
She’s probably off seeing her lover or somewhere else at that time—and quite possibly even at our club. The ever-increasing number of single women at our club and their satisfaction only confirm my words. Take her with you, and you won’t have to lie to each other anymore.10) My wife isn’t into that at all…
Try taking her to a swingers club, and after a while you’ll realize how much she’s been missing this for years—she was just afraid to tell you. Maybe she’s been coming here without you all along. The idea that your partner isn’t into it is, 90 percent of the time, just a misconception held by men who make decisions for their wives.
If you ask any woman, she’s quite interested in swingers, but she thinks her husband (partner) would never let her. (Other scenarios where you might hear this from a man: He’s afraid to ask his partner and implies he’s henpecked. A jealous man, on the other hand, is afraid he couldn’t handle it emotionally.)11) Single men aren’t allowed in the clubs…
A commonly repeated myth that is far from the truth. Unfortunately, not all clubs have realized this and even list this nonsense on their websites. But when their attendance has been dwindling for a long time, suddenly single men are welcome—though for a very hefty entrance fee. We have no such silly restrictions for any gender, and we never will. Our prices will also always remain affordable for everyone. We are always a club for everyone, and nothing will change in the future.12) I’m too young or too old to go to a swingers club…
If you’re not eighteen, you really are too young for swingers. If you can’t walk down our stairs to the club on your own, you’re also right—you’re too old for swingers.13) Single men are not allowed to post ads on the swingers dating site. Only couples can post ads…
I’ll allow myself a bit of hyperbole here. Until now, I had mistakenly assumed that swingers’ clubs were about men meeting women and vice versa for the purpose of erotic experiences. But it’s clear that other swingers’ venues see it differently. Another competing club has also taken an original approach. You have to register with them first before you can post a dating ad. It’s nonsense.14) I’ve been going to a dating chat for a week (a month) now and can’t find anyone for sex…
Come to us all week according to the schedule, and you might have to take a few days off from sex. You’ll be tired and practically useless in bed…
What to say in conclusion? If you want to broaden your erotic horizons and break out of the boring routine at home, visit the aforementioned BUNKR club. It can accommodate up to a hundred participants at its daily gatherings. And newcomers have nothing to be shy about. The owner, S., and her team are happy to offer advice. She, too, wants you to feel at home in the club. You can park your car in the parking lot next to the building, but of course, you can also easily reach the venue by public transportation. If you’re still feeling shy, check out the dating site or chat room for this swingers’ club www.swingersklub.eu
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Z vlastní zkušenosti vím, že do swingers klubu se vesměs stahují různý sexuální tragédi. Paní majitelka nemluví pravdu o té diskrétnosti personálu. Když jsem přišla do swingers klubu poprvé, pozdravil vrátný mojí přítelkyni slovy “Dlouho jsi tady nebyla” a tak vyrobil mezi námi hádku. Kdy byl diskrétní tak nekomentuje frekvenci chození.
Hezký den,
souhlasím s vámi, že jeho chování diskrétní nebylo, ale snad to byla jenom chyba jedince. Paušalizovat jeho chování na veškerý personál mi přijde trochu nefér 🙂
A s těmi tragédy – na ty narazíte úplně všude… 🙂