Masturbation from History to Practice – A GUIDE

“All of us have jerked off at one time or another, and those who say they haven’t, still do.” This is a very popular phrase that is often used with a smile when the subject of masturbation comes up. And do you even know who is the author of this statement?

Or that the term Onanie is actually inaccurate? How many male masturbation techniques do you know? We’ll tell you that and much more in our article.

There was a time when I thought I knew everything about masturbation and that all we needed to practice it was our right and left hands. In fact, I could really get away with it. But, as I found out, my actions were just a boringly repetitive routine. Today I know how to make myself feel good in several ways, which, as usual, I am happy to share with you. But you may have guessed that first we’re going to talk a little bit about the rich history that goes along with masturbation.

Why masturbation?

Little is known about the origins of the word Masturbation. However, a derivation from Lat. mas (man), manus (hand), turbare (to arouse), or the pejorative stuprare (to dishonour), stupro (fuck, rape), which would otherwise suggest a church attitude to self-flagellation, as masturbation was otherwise called at the time. But more on that later.

What is this Onania?

“But Onan knew that the offspring would not belong to him; therefore whenever he went in to his brother’s wife, he put his seed on the ground, lest he should beget offspring for his brother.” – Genesis 38

Swiss physician André Tissot and declared masturbation to be masturbation. But in Onan’s work it was intermittent coitus, not masturbation. However, no one cared, not even the famous psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud, who began one of his lectures with that famous sentence “every one of us has masturbated at some time and who….”

Stone Age Playboy

It is admittedly not entirely clear from the cave paintings whether the depicted gentlemen with huge penises and ladies with huge lures served, for the subscribers, as inspiration for autoeroticism. Of course, what is quite obvious from these is That it was quite lively back then.

Yes, we can talk about these Stone Age Playboys as symbols of fertility, but if we go a rock further, we can see couples, one of whom has the other’s genitals in his mouth, or eventually two people fucking with a third looking on.

This doesn’t seem to me much like a symbol of fertility anymore, more like the very first Kodak porn moment. Whether the local inhabitants once masturbated we don’t know, but that they had sex even for the purpose of mere gratification is clear. And I’ll be damned if those images didn’t at least arouse some desire for touch.

Masturbation as a lifestyle

For example, the Egyptians worshipped the sun god Atum by masturbation, who, according to legend, created the first two souls (the beginning of humanity) in this very way. In Mesopotamia, the water in the Tigris River was said to be nothing more than the ejaculate of a god named Enki, who of course first properly “muddied”

In antiquity, however, they were more concerned with those blissful feelings. Masturbation was so common that teachers even complained that their explanations were interrupted by the loud sighs of excited pupils. Some, such as Plato and Socrates, did not seem to mind so much, and were even happy to participate.

Hands on the duvet, gentlemen…!

Who started this is again a bit hazy, but the bad effect of Masturbation on increasing the population, which was needed to successfully conquer new territories, was considered. Again, the “good old” Church took the most commercial view of this (but Judaism, for example, took a very similar view).

Anything that prevented the population from being sustained, such as intermittent intercourse, anal/oral sex, homosexuality, and last but not least, of course, masturbation, was considered sinful fornication, for which the offenders were also threatened with appropriate retribution.

divine punishments, little scares like hairy palms, impotence, or decreased libido, etc., sufficed at first. However, over time, things had to toughen up, and the harms of self-loathing began to be addressed by science. This was just the weapon the Church needed.

All mental disorders were automatically attributed specifically to masturbation, and to combat it, horrific devices were constructed and installed on young men’s privates in various ways (Gentlemen, you certainly wouldn’t want to live in this era). Since these “wanking” hunts were still going on in the second half of the twentieth century, it’s not surprising that sexuality is still partly taboo today, and many people don’t go openly talking about self-empowerment, as they say, through their mouths.

Well, what about women?

Interestingly, women, as masturbatory sinners, are hardly mentioned in the writings. Fittingly, they were sort of elusive in that regard. And quite possibly they also had a big plus in terms of procreation. Still, the Church decided to make it up to women, right back in the days of the Inquisition. But on the other hand, they had a whole range of other marriage to choose from.

So we’ve told a few of the most necessary interesting facts from the world of autoeroticism, interesting right? Let’s be glad that reason triumphs over blind faith these days (at least in this regard). I would like to conclude the theoretical part with a sentence of the Greek philosopher, pioneer of the Greek philosophy, Diogenes of Sinope (412 BC-323 BC). After he had masturbated in a square full of people, he said:

“It is as natural a need as hunger and thirst – and these, too, one satisfies on the spot.”

Let’s start with the main mistakes women can make when wanking their partner, making climaxing unpleasant… And that there are many, unfortunately.

In the next part (this time the last one) there will be clear procedures, instructions and advice for an incredible penis massage and its pleasurable handjob (both ladies with a partner and gentlemen alone at home can use it).

Is it hard to give a great jerk off?

In principle, there is nothing difficult about penile stimulation, but many female partners are afraid of this technique. It is important for a man to realize that manual penile stimulation performed by a woman is primarily about him.

Therefore, they cannot expect the woman to know exactly what to do and how to do it. After all, sensations during masturbation are non-transferable between partners. Therefore, she cannot know what her partner is experiencing unless he tells her. In that case, the woman can perform whatever technique she thinks might be right.

Her only feedback is her partner’s reaction. However, if she does not get any response from her partner, she will certainly get nervous and often wants to get the job done as quickly as possible. If the man is sensible, he guides, teaches and advises his partner during penile stimulation. Such a teacher role can be very exciting.

Main Mistakes

During manual stimulation, the most common mistake is for a woman to use an insufficient amount of lubricant and continue masturbating constantly. Most couples use water-based lubricants – their big problem is that they gradually dry out. Therefore, if more lubricant is not added in time, the penis will start to “dry out” and stimulation can be painful for the partner.

A great tip is to add a small drop of water and their properties are immediately restored.

Another problem can occur if the movement of the woman’s handis limited to the area between the pubic bone and the glans penis. However, this part of the penis is not so sensitive for men, it is also important to involve stimulation of the glans itself.

Smoothing, massaging the glans with gentle pressure and gently running it over the bridle can bring almost any man to the peak of bliss.

Don’t be shy!

But there are also women who are almost ashamed of masturbating their penis. That’s why they try to get this unpleasant task done as quickly as possible. In this case, the woman often “wanks” the penis as fast as possible, she can bring her partner to climax, but the man has nothing to gain from such a feat. In such a case, the only solution is to try to fundamentally change the woman’s approach to masturbation.

The man must not reproach his partner, otherwise the woman will block herself and will not want to jerk off her partner’s penis at all. Mutual communication is very important, the partners must talk about the problem and the man should help the woman, kindly guide her to get rid of her shame.

That’s how you can enjoy a partner wank (not always the man is in the mood for sex and a smart girlfriend is happy to help him = he will be happy to return the favour next time after a fantastic wank). And if a man has problems with premature ejaculation, one wank before sex always makes the next play session longer – the difference in stamina is noticeable.

How about you?

So – do you like to jerk off? Tell us in the comments (which are anonymous) how you like to do it? Do you have any tried and tested methods, techniques or tricks?

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