How to ruin HIM with an erotic massage, after which he will do anything for you? UPDATED

I know you men are satisfied with just rubbing your penis, oral sex or both together and all is done in a minute at best, but why not experience a longer pleasure? After all, it’s always the “before” moment that’s the biggest thrill. And sometimes some female teasing…

Most men enjoy being pampered and massaged far more by their girlfriends than by an unknown masseuse in a relaxation center somewhere. And what’s the reason? Very simple! During a massage when the spouses of the creatures are almost naked they naturally almost always get excited and that is why they are afraid of getting embarrassed in massage and relaxation parlors and that is what prevents them from completely relaxing.

Massages don’t always have to be erotic – but they can be

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Massaging your partner’s body is certainly one of everyone’s favourite pastimes. But some may find back rubs “boring”, so why not try something new? Some peoples even have special techniques to do good to their men or women. And it certainly wasn’t just massaging the intimate parts, but other parts of the body as well. You can find inspiration below.

Indian version of massage – tips

Women of Indian tribes consider head massage as one of the best means of soothing neck and shoulder pain. It is these two parts that trouble especially men who sit in front of computer screens all day. On the head we find many nerve endings which, when we start to pamper them, bring relief to the whole neck and throat.

If you want to see your partner find massage pleasurable, place your head in his/her lap. First massage the area between the eyebrows, then move your hands to the ears, where Chinese medicine says over 300 acupuncture points lie! At the end of the massage, press all the fingers of one hand to the crown of his head and slowly open it sideways until you reach his neck. Many men get an erection while stroking like this.

Tantric massage can relax

A nice alternative to traditional massage can be the mysterious Tantra.

Place both of your hands on top of your partner’s thighs, curling motions in a clockwise direction, and try to gently warm the joints. Once you begin to feel your pet’s muscles relax, gently apply pressure. Next, move your fingers to the sensitive groin area and massage upwards with gentle movements. The next massage is up to your imagination and taste.

A few massage oils that have worked well for us when massaging. As a rule, we have chosen the bigger brands that have been on the market longer and can be trusted – in terms of quality ingredients (pure natural oils) and also their enticing scent.

It’s also important when massaging – Shunga oils in particular excel at this, with their captivating and perhaps even aphrodisiacal Far Oriental scent. In particular, these are probably one of the best-selling types in the world, and we in the editorial office like them. But of course, you can’t go wrong by investing in another brand from our selection either.

You can help yourself with toys…

As with erotic massages for women, toys can be used for men. But why would you do that when you have such dexterous hands? The only help is a good quality, slippery massage oil, possibly olive oil from the kitchen or coconut oil.

It’s also a good idea to line the bed sheet with PVC material (you’ll appreciate this even during sex, where you’re both oiled and rubbing your bodies together like snakes in your pre-couple dance) so you don’t get greasy oil on your bed.

How to get a men’s erotic massage?

Erotic massage for men isn’t that much different than one for women, and even the sensitive points aren’t recognizable solely by gender. In fact, every person has their sensitive points somewhere else, although genitals are sensitive in all genders and species. We have prepared a detailed guide based on our experience with massage:)

On February 25, 2016, we added to this article with practical advice and methods from experienced masseuses from erotic salon MataHari – thank you for your help.

Before you begin, however, prepare your “venue” for this experience. First of all, turn off your phones, play a long track of relaxing background music, light candles and ideally lightly darken the windows to make the overall atmosphere pleasantly intimate.

From the back

1. Partner lays belly down on the bed, naked. You sit straddling your partner so that you have his thigh between your legs or, if you are more comfortable, sit under your partner’s buttocks. Even if you are starting with a back massage, it should already be slightly erotic. We recommend warming up the massage oil, which you can do simply by pouring it from the original bottle into a glass one, which you then dip into the hot bath. Just a few minutes and the oil will warm up nicely. When applying to the body, you need to pour the oils through your hands to avoid burning your partner – so pour through your fingers or into your palm and then spread over your partner’s back. The area of the hips, just above the buttocks, where the internal organs are most sensitive to temperature, is pleasant, then the partner gets hot to the core.
2. With oiled palms, start the massage at the neck, then along the spine, and up to the buttocks. Slowly retch back again along the sides, repeating everything several times in slow steps. At this point, the partner is already slightly relaxed and tensely waiting to see what happens next. Since his back is already oiled, you can slide down it gently and very slowly. Feel free to put some oil on yourself as well, ideally so that your partner can watch everything in the mirror. Spread the oil slowly over your breasts and then run it over his back. Stop for a moment with your face close to his and lick his earlobe or whisper sweet words in his ear. Repeat two more times, but again, so that he stays in maximum tension, but holds on.
3. Now it’s the butt alone‘s turn. Move away from your partner so that you are at his side and he can reach you with his hand. Feel free to invite him to stroke your bottom while you attend to the inside of his thighs. This is a very sensitive spot, both exciting and ticklish, so don’t be afraid to apply a little pressure depending on his reaction. Spread his thighs slightly apart and visit his perineum. Then lift your partner’s pelvis slightly to reach his privates. Touch lightly, but again, take your time. If he becomes too aroused, immediately return to back and hand massage.
4. From the buttocks, work your way up to the cervical spine and back along the hips. Repeat several times. Massaging the palms and soles of the feet is particularly enjoyable. Try gently massaging them with hot oil and then turn around.

Front

Women should be provocateurs and they should also be able to seduce men in a foxy way. To make the atmosphere literally cutable, and to make the erotic spark feelable in your lap, try adding your body to your hands during this massage. Caress your partner’s breasts, touch your partner’s body with them, you may not even finish the erotic massage from the front…

1. Partner is already at attention, with the mentioned breasts put a crown on it, or use your hands again to knead your partner’s nipples. Go further down to the neck, back down over the tummy to the lap and back again (don’t worry, this can be applied with breasts too). Repeat several times.
2. At the “destination” of the wedgie, open your partner’s thighs and circle around the belly, pubic bone and back. Penis and testicles are still taboo! Repeat a few times and let the slipper hiss…
3. It’s only now that the male boast comes into play, which cannot be ignored. With oiled fingers we take it in our hands and slowly run our fingers from the scrotum through the root, the body of the penis, and on to the glans… Of course, ladies take your time…
4. The rolls are a chapter unto themselves. They are sensitive, so they require royal care with gentle fingers…
5. Maybe it’s over, maybe it’s not, either way this point captures the possibility that a partner is likely to take possession of you if they have not already exploded under your fingers…

Recommendations in conclusion

“Learn to massage each other intimately or MataHari Salon Couple Massage.“

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