Sex is not taboo for us, when we don't do it, we like to talk about it. We explore what can be done and what is pleasurable. Toys play a significant role in our exploration, we like glass dildos, small vibrators, anal pegs with and without tails, as well as restraining devices. He who lubes, rides, so we don't skimp on the gel. We still have a lot to explore. Sex in the dark once a month on a missionary is not for us.