Facesitting literally means sitting on your partner’s face. It is a practice particularly popular among men. When a woman sits on a man, she may be naked or may be wearing panties. The man then stimulates the woman’s vagina; if his partner doesn’t mind and finds it pleasurable, he can also stimulate her buttocks in this way.
Facesitting: The Secrets Revealed
In BDSM communities, facesitting (incorrectly referred to as Facecitting) is also associated with suffocation. When the woman is on top, the man’s entire mouth and nose are covered by her labia. If the woman sits on the man with her full weight, her partner may have difficulty breathing. A woman can suffocate her partner with her crotch even if she is fully clothed.
Facesitting is very popular among men who tend to be submissive, and suffocation gives them pleasure.
Choking is often performed by overweight or full-figured women—it is precisely these women who have the most curves, which they use to cover the man’s face and thus begin to choke him greedily and intensely. To free himself from the woman’s grip, he must work hard with his tongue to get (at least for a few moments) a breath of air. If facesitting is performed by a man and a woman (with the woman on the bottom in this case) or by two men, the role of the person on the bottom is licking the testicles and anal sex, which brings the man maximum arousal and pleasure.
VIDEO: What does choking a man with a crotch look like? (over 7 minutes)
VIDEO explaining the details of face-sitting (over 7 minutes)
Why do they like it?
For the partner on the bottom, facesitting immediately brings several types of arousal—the taste and scent of their partner’s intimate areas, the weight of their partner’s body, complete darkness, and minimal oxygen supply. If the submissive partner is also immobilized (whether by their partner’s weight or by being tied up), facesitting also brings them a complete sense of helplessness.
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Positions particularly suitable for facesitting include squatting, kneeling, sitting, or the so-called straddling.
Squat down nicely…
Couples who want to try oral-anal or oral-vaginal intercourse should choose the squatting position (the partner’s legs are spread wider). The downside is that this position is uncomfortable for extended periods.
If the couple decides to go with the riding position, the lying partner is almost immobilized. The partner on top can thus control the force of her movements herself. For her, the position is very comfortable. Riding is suitable for those who want to try choking.
Have you tried it yet?
Although it is an unconventional practice, it can also be enjoyed by many vanilla couples who otherwise give BDSM a wide berth. Have you also tried straddling your partner and enjoying the sensation? Or have you experienced it from the other side?
