If you want to spice up your relationship with your partner (or break it up), or just have some no-strings-attached fun, try a swingers party. These are special events for experiencing sex in a setting where you’re not alone, but surrounded by lots of other sexing couples.
So what exactly is a swingers party?
It involves various sexual activities between three or more people. Swinging is a practice in which couples swap sexual partners for the purpose of casual sex.
Swinging is sometimes mistakenly referred to as a group sex party. However, unlike group sex, there are always clearly defined rules at a swingers party, so it’s not possible to enjoy sexual pleasures with just anyone as you please. At swingers parties, we often encounter cuckoldry, where a woman has sex with another man, but with her partner’s consent and while he watches.
Years ago, swingers parties began to appear in the Czech Republic as well. However, these were mostly closed circles of people who rarely let anyone new in. The main purpose of a swingers party is primarily to have fun, meet new people, or, with the consent of the other person, try something new and unusual.
These were private gatherings of lovers of sex in their own homes/apartments. Today, the situation is quite different.
Czech swinger events—where to find them?
If you enter the phrase “swingers club” into the search engine, you’ll find that the Czech Republic isn’t doing too badly in this regard. There are quite a few clubs focused specifically on swingers, so there’s certainly something for everyone.
What is usually prohibited/allowed at a swingers party?
Of course, to visit, you must agree to their rules—every club has its own rules for visitors, though some rules are the same at all clubs:
- Only people over the age of 18 may participate.
- Participants must be in good health (they must not have any sexually transmitted diseases, nor any other acute infection—such as the flu).
- Entry while intoxicated or under the influence of drugs is prohibited.
- Participants must not harass other visitors in any way (e.g., through aggressive or jealous behavior).
- A “NO” must be respected.
- Photography or the making of any audio recordings is prohibited.
- Party participants are obligated to maintain confidentiality regarding events at the party and other participants.
In swingers clubs, parties usually have predefined specifications—for example, swingers parties exclusively for married couples, gay men, lesbians, or based on age groups.
Sometimes only couples and single women are allowed to enter. While this constitutes a certain discrimination against men themselves, without this rule there would be an unnecessary amount of testosterone at the swingers party.
It’s a big surprise that swingers parties aren’t just for single people. They’re also very often attended by couples who either want to have fun with someone else under their partner’s supervision, or are turned on by the atmosphere and just focus on themselves.
VIDEO: What a casual erotic party might look like (over 4 minutes)
You can, but you don’t have to participate in orgies
Of course, when visiting a swingers party, you don’t have to focus on just one person who catches your eye, but on everyone. This can lead to interesting entanglements where everyone enjoys themselves with everyone and various “taboos” are forgotten. In fact, there are no taboos—after all, if someone likes something, why should they let themselves be restricted?
What is it like abroad?
The fact that swingers enjoy great popularity among people is also evidenced, for example, by the fact that in the United Kingdom, a married couple founded the so-called Paradise swingers hotel. The hotel has a capacity of 16 couples, and a weekend at the hotel costs approximately 120 pounds (about 4,000 Czech korunas).
Your opinions 4 opinions
I really like Czech swingers events and I recommend them.
Hi,
thanks for sharing your experience. Swingers events can be a great fit for people who enjoy erotic openness, flirting, and meeting others in a setting where the rules are clearer than in ordinary dating.
I’d just add that the best experiences usually happen when people go there with respect, clear boundaries, and no pressure. It’s good to talk with your partner in advance about what is okay, what is not, whether you want only to watch, flirt, touch, or go further. And it’s completely fine to change your mind during the evening.
For beginners, I’d recommend starting slowly. Go mainly to look around, feel the atmosphere, and see whether this world suits you. Nobody has to “perform” just because they entered the club.
So yes, if it’s legal, consensual, discreet, and both partners are truly on board, Czech swingers events can be an interesting and enjoyable experience.
Sice pozoruhodně přesně popsané o co jde, ale chybí zásadní informace, že swingers párty navštěvují zoufalí jedinci nespokojení se svým sexuálním životem a podle toho to tam taky vypadá. Páry s kvalitním sexuálním životem tam chodit nepotřebují.
Dovolím si nesouhlasit. Včera jsem jednu navštívila s manželem a bylo to velmi kultivované, bez výměny partnerů a nepřipadalo mi, že by páry byly nespokojeny samy se sebou Ba naopak. Téměř všichni se uvolnili, ženy vzdychaly a jeden orgasmus střídal druhý a další. Velmi dobrá zkušenost.
Děkujeme za zpětnou vazbu – také nemáme pocit, že by byli nespokojeni a neužívali si to 🙂
Hezký den,
děkujeme za váš názor, ale osobně si dovolím nesouhlasit. Z mých zkušeností chodí na swingers právě páry s kvalitním sexuálním životem a pevným vztahem. Chějí jednoduše vyzkoušet něco jiného, co by jim rozšířilo jejich sexuální obzor. Nevidím důvod, proč tyto lidi nazývat zoufalcemi. Je to téměř totéž jako nazývat zoufalcemi páry, kteří používají erotické hračky :).
S partnerem jsme nedávno navštívili jeden nejmenovaný podnik na území našeho hlavního města (rozumějte Prahy). Neměli jsme sice moc odvahu, plést se do hrátek ostatním párům, ale přesto jsme si tu eroticky nabitou atmosféru naprosto užili a při nejlbižší příležitosti tam zajdeme znovu. Třeba se dostaví i odvaha zkusit něco nového a zašpásovat si s i s jinými páry.
Mám stejnou zkušenost a příště také zvažujeme se k některému páru připojit, zatím bez výměny partnerů.
to bych moc nedoporučovala
Abych řekl pravdu, tak swingers na české úrovni neznám. Mám zkušenosti hlavně ze zahraničí, kde jsem dlouhou dobu žil a studoval. A musím uznat že nic lepšího než si zařádit (bezpečně) s lidmi, co milují sex, stejně jako já. Pokud máte odvahu a blízko nějaký swingers klub, tak do toho jistě běžte. V životě se má vyzkoušet všechno ne?
Někdo tam může zažít slušné trauma
A někdo také ne 😉