Do you and your partner want to spice up your sex or just try something new? Have you ever thought about incorporating “heat/cold” into your play? Not sure what I’m talking about?
In other words, the greater the temperature contrast you choose, the more intense the experience will be. Keep in mind, however, that even ice can cause some discomfort to your partner.
Playing with ice/cold is for everyone
Imagine your partner lying on the bed, her body heated up from previous sex or cuddling. Now imagine how she feels when you start gently running an ice cube over her body? When you circle it around her nipples and they harden from the cold? Or when you let the cube wander into more intimate places, into her womb. Alternatively, you can immediately “remove” the droplets of water clinging to her body with your tongue, which your partner certainly won’t mind.
You can simply hold the ice cube between your fingers, but it might be more interesting to hold it between the tips of your teeth. This way, you’re naturally much closer to your partner’s body and can see how she reacts to the cold.
Of course, you must run the ice cube gently over her skin and not let it “rest” anywhere to avoid possible frostbite or cold burns.
A more interesting variation is when you combine the use of cooling ice cubes with, for example, play with handcuffs and scarves, which I wrote about recently. These games take on a completely different atmosphere, and the touch of cold ice on a heated body will be all the more intense for the partner who is blindfolded or handcuffed.
VIDEO: 50 Shades of Grey and Ice Teasing (over 4 minutes)
Oral sex with ice
During oral sex, you can enjoy not only the touch of your partner’s mouth, but also their tongue and other aids. When using ice cubes, remember that ice is very cold, and on intimate areas even more so. So be sure to be careful not to cause frostbite. To give your partner only pleasant sensations, focus on creating contrast during stimulation. The best way is to tease your partner with an ice cube and then warm the spot with your own breath.
Another option is to put an ice cube in your mouth for a moment and then tease your lover with an icy tongue. This is essentially also the gentlest way to use ice during sex.
The third way to use an ice cube is best enjoyed by men. The partner takes an ice cube into her mouth and simultaneously begins to satisfy the man orally.
Vaginal sex with ice
Ice is also great for vaginal sex. Choose a smaller ice cube so that sex does not cause frostbite in the woman. Also, find out in advance whether the woman is prone to inflammation or other health complications. Otherwise, using ice is not very suitable.
There are also toys designed specifically for cooling pleasure
TIP: On the market for sex toys, there are some devices that use cold as a means to intensify the experience of penetration or for various ways to “tease your partner.” One such device is, for example, the Touché Ice Silver vibrator. We even subjected it to a detailed review – Ice Touché vibrator.
The main part of this toy is the vibrating cartridge. To use it, simply pour water into the silicone base, insert this vibrating cartridge into it, and let it freeze in your freezer. Then you can use this “ice-cold” vibrator according to your desires and ideas.
Erotic games with ice
And finally, a few small tips on how to use ice beyond refreshing drinks:
- melting – place a piece of ice on your navel, which is a significant erogenous zone, and then move the partially melted cube all over your body;
- searching – why not let a piece of ice slip into your panties or, in the summer, your swimsuit? If your partner has to search for the stray ice cube, that’ll be even more exciting;
- painting – everyone knows about chocolate and a brush for body painting, but what about swapping the chocolate for a piece of ice?
- passing – why not try a steamy kiss with a piece of ice that you pass back and forth from mouth to mouth?
- ice spots – a fun game is licking the little puddles that form when ice melts on your body.
Your opinions 1 opinion
Kostička ledu kroužící po mém těle, hlavně v intimních partiích je hodně zajímavá představa a dost lákavá. Škoda že není kdo by se mi tak věnoval.
Jinak ten vibrátorek je zajímavej, ale jeho cena mě docela odrazuje. Škoda mohla bych si takhle vystačit sama.