Just a few years ago, everyone would have judged you for one-night stands and viewed it as a breach of decency, but nowadays it’s a completely common and everyday occurrence.
According to the latest surveys, 54% of women feel great the day after a one-night stand. For men, that figure is as high as 80%.
One-night stand—will you really enjoy it?
Have you ever had a one-night stand? For some, it can be a pleasant change of pace that they indulge in once or a few times in their lives. Others engage in such sex frequently and actively seek it out. It usually serves as the culmination of an evening out with friends. You meet someone interesting and sparks start flying between you , and you feel like you have to sleep with that person.
When it comes to one-night stands, the most active age group today is 25 to 29 years old. About 62% have had a one-night stand. Even when it comes to one-night stands, at least some feelings or mutual attraction play a role for 50% of men and 60% of women. However, 22% of women lose interest in their partner the next day. 57% of women condemn their peers for engaging in casual sex—usually just for one night—and consider them “easy.”
However, men are relatively impressed by this lifestyle. Only 22% share the same opinion as women. And now let’s look at the story of one girl who loves casual sex and sees it as an integral part of her life.
Have casual sex, or it will hurt you
It’s important for both partners to know that this is one-night stand and not the start of a new relationship.
If you’re looking for something more than just sex, it’s not a good idea to end the first evening with that person in bed. On the other hand, some studies show that even this method of “dating” can work out and develop into a lasting relationship. But a one-night stand doesn’t always end in mutual satisfaction.
It often happens that after a wild night, the person wakes up with a hangover next to a stranger, realizing they’ve done something they didn’t want to do at all.
Instead of the good feeling from a night full of excitement and sex, there are then pangs of conscience and a bad feeling. What to do about it? Forget it. People learn from their mistakes, and there’s no point in beating yourself up over it for too long. Of course, it’s important to use a condom during casual sex. Otherwise, that morning with a hangover could also mark the beginning of a nightmare filled with fear that you might have contracted some sexually transmitted disease.
One-night stand, or a story from real life
It’s eight in the morning, I wake up and turn my head to the other side. And who’s lying next to me? An attractive man whom I called Tomáš all last night. The night before, Tomáš told me that he’s an athlete, actively plays hockey, and regularly goes to the gym. This is evident from his beautifully sculpted muscular physique, which I had the chance to examine in detail throughout last night.
Tomáš is still asleep, but I’m slowly waking up and looking around. Our clothes and underwear are scattered all over the bedroom. However, my gaze drifts to the nightstand, where I see 4 used and empty condom wrappers. Tomáš was indeed eager last night, as evidenced by my black lace thong, which ended up on the nightstand lamp.
I know that in a few minutes Tomáš will wake up, we’ll have breakfast together, but we’ll never see each other again—after all, it’s just a no-strings-attached one-night stand, and that suits me just fine. It might sound selfish, but I’m really happy this way; I don’t have to deal with pointless arguments and I can do everything just the way I want. Everyone has their own preferences, but trying this way of life certainly can’t hurt!
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ahoj jmenuji se jirka mam 44 let a chci sex na jednu noc s holkou z opavska
Hezký den,
děkujeme za zprávu, ale nejsme sexuální seznamka – to zkuste spíše fórum Erotikfórum.cz a jeho erotickou podsekci On hledá ji.
Je to ruská ruleta. Adrenalin asi jako paraglaiding. Pravdou ale je, že když jeden potká druhého-druhou, který zapadne do představ snových, tak mnozí třeba v třeskutém mrazu na sněhu. Pojď se mnou pod košatý strom, kam vánek umřít letí… tam v té košaté spleti, povíš mi šeptem tvá přání mnohá…