Many people are tempted to film their own erotic video. Are you one of them? What excites couples the most about it? Will you go for it? Aren’t you afraid that this video might end up in the wrong hands?
Filming yourself during sex can be exciting
Are you tempted to film yourself and your partner, or your partner during your sexual play? Many people do it. Why? What do they get out of it?
Some get turned on by watching backwards how they enjoyed themselves with their partner, but many do it just for the feeling of being filmed while having sex.
They like it when someone is watching them; the idea of being caught in the act turns them on incredibly—and even that can be simulated in all its beautiful simplicity by a camera, a photo camera, or a cell phone. A smaller portion of couples tend to share their sexually themed videos further. For example, on various erotic dating sites (such as for finding a partner for a threesome or for swingers), or on amateur porn sites. They want to show off their bodies and their sexual antics and aren’t afraid that someone will link them to the erotic footage.
If you don’t belong to this group, you should be very careful about who you decide to film your erotic video with.
Trust, but verify your partner
There is a risk that your partner might show the video to other people or post it directly online. Perhaps you don’t want this popularity and want the recorded “erotic material” to remain just between the two of you.
Are you convinced that your partner wouldn’t do that to you? Not that we want to be cynical, but don’t count on it. You don’t yet know what you’ll do to each other or how stormy your potential breakup might be. If the risk of your erotic video being shared doesn’t scare you, then go for it. Thanks to a video camera, you and your partner can enjoy many moments that will add the right spark to your erotic play.
Get inspired by other “home videos”
If you’re still not sure whether you want to make such a video with your partner and are hesitating about how you’ll look on camera, head to the internet. It’s literally overflowing with similar videos—so pick the one that appeals to you the most.
Typically, such pornographic videos have something like “home made porn / videos” in the title.
Not only will it be great foreplay, but you might not even have time to watch the whole video. When filming at home, turn off your brain and think only about what you’ve already seen, relax, and focus on your partner. Your brain will subconsciously tune you into the same erotic vibe you’ve seen, and your homemade video is sure to be a hit. And now you can watch only your own video as foreplay.
Camera, clapperboard, action!
Even filming homemade sex should have a certain script. Of course, you won’t plan every thrust in advance, but you should agree on certain points (and I don’t mean the G-spot). Decide what the beginning of the whole “movie” will be, how the foreplay will unfold, and how long it will last.
This will prevent those shy glances that seem to say:
“What are we going to do now? Should I turn around yet? How long will we stay in this position?” and so on.
If you plan to spice up your recorded sex with toys, don’t forget to have them all ready by the bed or wherever you intend to record the sex. After all, you don’t want to run off halfway through to look for your favorite dildo or whip. But you mustn’t constantly think about the script.
Of course, the camera would give that away and everything would feel unnatural. Don’t be afraid to show the pleasure you’re feeling. Don’t think about the cameras and imagine that you and your partner are somewhere in a cave, for example, where no one can hear you, so you can give free rein to your desires, and most importantly, you don’t have to hold back on the volume. This combination of script and spontaneity is sure to turn you on, and you won’t forget this sex not only because of the cameras, but also because of the intense experience you’ll have.
Will you let the eye of the video camera into your bedroom?
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Dobrý den,
může mi někdo prosím doporučit, kde se dají sehnat česká nebo v češtině namluvená videa, kde se při sexu mluví vulgárně, tzv. dirty talk? Nebo zda je na toto téma nějaký blog apod. Děkuji
Zdravíme, bohužel vyloženě dirty talk v češtině nebudou zrovna masovou záležitostí, takže bych pohledal celkově česká videa, ať už pornohvězd či amatérek, nadával se bude tam dle mě dostatečně. 🙂 Sexblog na tak malé téma dle mě specializovaný nebude bohužel. Přejeme hezký lov!