The female orgasm is different from the male orgasm in many ways. Women also generally find it harder to reach orgasm. Some women are even unable to reach orgasm at all. What causes this, and what can be done about it?
Women and Their Orgasms
There are women who are vaginal, meaning they reach orgasm through stimulation during sex itself. The second group of women includes clitoral women, who reach the peak of pleasure through sexual stimulation of the clitoris. But what about women who are unable to reach orgasm at all? What causes this?
There can be a whole range of causes. Often, these are women who underwent a puritanical upbringing in childhood, but this group also includes women who have been victims of sexual trauma. It doesn’t have to be just rape. A woman may experience further difficulty reaching orgasm due to a lack of harmony with her partner. This includes relationship conflicts, as well as differing sexual desires, shyness, etc.
If a woman wants to reach orgasm, she must remove her psychological block and be able to relax as much as possible.
Often, however, it is not about psychology, but merely about technique. If a woman is unable to reach orgasm during sex, it does not mean she cannot reach it at all.
Some women reach their climax through oral sex or clitoral stimulation. If you want to reach orgasm during sex and aren’t strictly vaginal, dual stimulation can help. Choose an erotic position, such as from behind, that allows for simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris during sex. And one more important thing: Learn to communicate with your partner about what you like and don’t like in sex. Openness on this topic is very important.
What is and isn’t frigidity
Frigidity refers to sexual coldness. It is a sexual dysfunction. A frigid woman has no interest in sexual intercourse and is not aroused by stimulation of the genitalia.
However, this does not mean that if a woman is not often in the mood for sex, she is frigid.
The causes of a lack of desire can vary, e.g., fatigue or the fact that the sexual partner in question “doesn’t know how” to please her.
What are the causes of frigidity?
Frigidity has many causes. It is often accompanied by disorders of the thyroid gland or adrenal glands, as well as gynecological inflammations, depression, or the use of certain medications. Furthermore, temporary frigidity may be related to breastfeeding or a difficult childbirth, but it can also be caused by a mental disorder, trauma (not limited to rape), social circumstances, or a puritanical upbringing in which a woman was taught that sex is something bad, associated with guilt.
Can frigidity be treated?
Treatment for frigidity depends on the causes. If they are physiological, treatment is more difficult. If the causes are psychological, appropriate psychotherapy helps, but so do masturbation techniques and autoeroticism in general. Cooperation with your partner is also important, as is open communication about sex and exercises that help improve arousal, such as Kegel exercises.
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Musím říct že tento pohled na věc je velice zajímavý.Je pravda že většina mužů řekne o své ženě že je frigidní jen kuli tomu že to žena nechces děla tpokaždé když muž…Musím bezesporu přiznat že k této části mužské populace sem patřil i já dokad sem si neuvědomil že ženy jsou prostě jiné bezva článek!
With some women, it’s important to be patient, seduce them, and tease them—then they’ll happily want it every day when they’re on the same horny wavelength as you 😉
Ahoj,sem ženaty 17 let vše fungovalo normálně až na poslední pul rok.Najednou přestala mit chutˇ na sex,někdy to je jednou za měsíc někdy za dýl.Když jí začnu dráždít tak to sní moc nehne až za delší dobu anebo mi ruku odhodí,připadá mi že se z ní stavá frigidní ženská,už myslím i na nevěru abych uspokojil sexualní potřebu.Pro fungování vztahu je sex velmi důležitý,to je můj názor.
Pro fungování vztahu je určitě důležitý sex, ale není to jeho jedinou plnohodnotnou náhradou – podobně důležitá je i komunikace, která vám evidentně chybí. Ptejte se co se děje, proč na sex nemá chuť, jestli nemá nějaké problémy, jestli ji něco netíží, … Tohle je základ zdravého vztahu.
je zdrave mit orgasmus každy den ?
Ano je – při orgasmu se celé tělo uvolní, vyčistíte si hlavu a do krve se uvolní “hormony štěstí”. Takže čím víc, tím líp – ale samozřejmě nemá se nic přehánět 🙂