Sexual play with the male anus in public is an indelible taboo for most of male society in the 21st century, as is prostate massage. The rejection is primarily due to the fear of “losing one’s MACHO status” in society, especially among the male segment. For reasons that are unclear to me, this individual then feels that he is less of a man.

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“Well, if, for some men, pleasure as they know it is not yet a reason to be, as the phrase goes, less of a man, then my writing is not for them…”

Another reason for the reluctance is fears about the intensity and painfulness of first penetration, based on hearsay and stories about those men who weren’t afraid to try something new but went about it the wrong way. In such situations, they are usually discouraged and the chances of them continuing to explore the newly discovered substance of pleasure are slim to none. And that’s a shame!

First and foremost, it should be set the record straight that my article deals with heterosexual anal intercourse by a partner with a quality strap-on.

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And how about me?

From my early teens, right after the magic of masturbation, I wondered what it would be like to catch a few inches further. On my first attempt, I teased my rectum with my middle finger, which I then slowly began to slide inside myself, all the way in.

The feeling that awoke in me was so intense and wanton that I couldn’t resist trying to slide my ring finger in. Thanks to the lack of stretching I paid the price and instead of self-soothing I experienced the pain that repels most men from anal practice. Still, I was not discouraged and continued my attempts. When I finally managed to climax without causing myself any pain, I told myself that I would never again stray into the waters of conventional masturbation. I wanted more and I already knew how to achieve it.

With time came the desire to try anal intercourse with a partner using a strap-on. It took me a long time to find one that I would allow to engage where I had only let myself go. It took me a while to introduce her to the practice, but thanks to the pleasure she gave me I realized that all my shyness was for nothing.

“Anal intercourse, as such, is all about trust to begin with.”

Hygiene

The days of DeSade’s 120 Days of Sodom and legions of fetishistic “foodies” are there. So the basics are a warm shower or bath, which you can engage your partner in to start the foreplay. After all, the fact that we as men wash ourselves is an achievement of modern times, so why not go back to our roots and make ourselves feel like the man of the house?

Pay increased attention to fingers on hands. Trim your nails and the corroded bits of skin around them, then file them down. This will prevent tearing the glove or tearing the inside of the rectum and prevent a lengthy and uncomfortable healing process.

Remember that only HEALTHY people can have anal intercourse. In case of hemorrhoids, intestinal problems or other complications, save the sex for later.

foreplay

As we already know, one variant of foreplay is a bath performed by your partner. Monotony and long-lasting stereotypes don’t belong in sex, so you have plenty to choose from. For example, prostate massage is the most effective one, and the time you spend on it depends on how large a dildo you get your first intercourse.

For a basic size (12 x 2 cm), one finger stimulation with oral assistance is sufficient, but if you’re feeling daring, have the sphincter stretched to three fingers, with an optimal teasing time of 15 minutes.

If you’re not relaxed enough for the massage and the sphincter resists too much, suggest to your partner that she spare you both a moment of “rimming”. For the unfamiliar, this is the name for the practice of anal licking during which you can jerk off and get comfortable. If even this doesn’t relax you seek rescue in the form of anal numbing gel.

Solitary intercourse

Tuned up and ready, don’t put anything off and get to the action. Try helping your partner, for example, with stringing a strap-on. On this occasion, you can play with the dildo or at least put a condom on it and rub it with lubricating gel.

For the initial penetration, I recommend choosing the supine or sideways position. After you get used to the submissive role, you can determine the positions yourself. It is undoubtedly an advantage if you get involved immediately after penetration and start to slowly reciprocate, thus rhythmically aligning yourself with your partner and making the whole process easier.

Take note that this will be even more new to your prostate than it is to you, so count on ejaculation being just around the corner and all it takes is a little harder thrusting or bridle stimulation and climax will not wait.

This is due not only to the strong and new excitement, but also to the irritation of that very prostate gland, which causes intense blood flow, even engorgement, causing a faster climax. Do not take this as a failure, but as an inspiration for new and new positions. In addition, it is possible to continue fucking after the shot, because the strap-on does not need a break to recover.

Believe that the intensity that runs through your body will preserve your energy and desire to return the pleasure to a partner who deserves it.

Closing

Sex itself is a basic instinct and need for each of us, and therefore it is important to develop and improve it. Putting the brakes on not only ourselves, but on partner intimacy in the one-month missionary phase after dark and under the covers is not productive for any of us… But that’s for another time and in another article 🙂

So don’t take this text as a general guide, but as inspiration for your play from someone who refuses to stereotype and isn’t ashamed to share.

Wishing you a pleasant day without shame,

Your NooX alias Nadrzouna.cz – a new sexblogger under Lascero.cz.

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My partner and I enjoy anal sex more often. But fortunately (for her), it’s the other way around. She takes the strapon and slides it deep inside me. It feels great – and I enjoy it even more because it makes my partner cum gradually. Love women who can indulge their partners in such deep pleasure!

We agree with you 🙂 such women are few and far between and I am grateful to have one of them at home too O:)

Hello, this is a comprehensive article. Informative. I didn’t read anywhere how long a dildo, vibrator or penis can fit in a man’s anus. I’ve tried 15cm so far and it’s fine. Can you try to answer me? Thank you.

Have a nice day,

thank you for your inquiry. From what we have traced through internet sources, the human rectum should be 12-17.5 centimetres long depending on the size of the person, so any advice here is expensive as to how deep to go. We wouldn’t overdo it too much and would mainly follow our feelings, we wouldn’t go over the pain for sure. Enough anal toys are around 20cm usable length, so we would continue with that. Slowly, with lube, take it easy and see 🙂

Thank you for your comprehensive reply 🙂

You’re welcome.) Hope it helped with the preparation for these pleasurable games. It helped me too, and I’m not a virgin in male anal anymore.

Nice article. I applaud it, but every time I find an article similar to this one, I think there is one important piece of information missing. How to prepare (food) a few hours beforehand, how to defecate so that even with a few minutes of the act, there is no awkward situation. I’m going to exaggerate now, but for example should one sleep properly, drink only water or juice for a day and no tea or beer? Should he eat only mushy food to empty himself well, should he exercise beforehand, should he use an enema, or are there some gentler methods to empty himself such as laxatives? etc…
Does anyone have any experience of this please?
Because how to penetrate, a sensible person and their partner can figure that out and find a plethora of instructions, but how to prepare so that no nasty business card is left on the Strapon toy cannot be found

Hello,
First of all, let me point out that anal is never a 100% clean, as it seems to me from your question, sterile environment. Unless one has several enemas in a row and a few days of fasting (The way it is done in the porn industry).

Everything you listed I would take the liberty of commenting on. 🙂

Tea is one of the most natural beverages that supplies the body with minerals, which is a big plus not only in this case. I would avoid herbal and fruit blends only.

I don’t recommend beer. We all know what our stools look like after a few evening bites. As with fatty foods (ovar, knee, belly…) and overeating!!!

In the case of a mushy diet, I would like to point out that our body takes only the important things from the food and eliminates the rest as waste. If it goes in thin, what kind of stuff leaves the body? 🙂

As I wrote in the article, if you’re healthy (i.e. you excrete regularly and without problems, don’t get dirty, don’t suffer from constipation or diarrhea, etc.), rested, defecated (as you do every day) and in a good mood, there’s nothing to wait for.
The risk of spotting is always there with anal practice, but despite the pressure of the dildo, it is impossible for solid stool to get out. Be aware of your body, it will warn you of the worst in time.

As for laxatives, I wouldn’t bet on them. The body gets irritated and tired after taking them, which is not the healthy state mentioned.

Remember, he who is afraid must not go into the woods! 😉

P.S In the case of enemas, if you have no experience with them, be prepared to keep three and a half litres of lukewarm water in your intestines for ten minutes.
So, if your body is not used to it, it may happen that some of the deciliters will remain in you and during the act, at the moment of climax, instead of a nice moment, it may also happen that the open bowels would at least show your partner the given business card. 🙂

Have a nice evening
NooX

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