In this latest installment, we’ve put together an overview of the most well-known and commonly used erotic positions for lovemaking. You’re probably all familiar with them, but we’ve included a few tips for each one on how to enjoy them even more.
The Most Well-Known Sex Positions – Our Editors’ Picks
The 69 Position
One of the non-penetrative sexual positions is the 69 position. The man lies on his back, slightly spreading and bending his legs. The woman kneels above the man’s face, leans toward his genitals, and takes his penis as deep into her mouth as she likes. At the same time, her partner caresses her vaginal opening with his tongue. The woman can press her genitals against the man’s face with as much intensity as she likes.
The partners can also hold each other by the thighs and press themselves together. It got its name because the man’s and woman’s bodies together resemble the number 69. The advantage for women is that the man has the best access to her intimate areas and can caress her with his tongue quite deeply.
Furthermore, the man can use his fingers while pleasuring his partner, which will certainly enhance her experience. The position can also be performed on one’s side, which is particularly suitable if the woman is pregnant or if one of the partners is significantly heavier.
Oral sex in the 69 position is certainly an interesting way to spice up your bedroom play. You both caress, tease, and lick each other, etc. You both try to accommodate the other and make them feel “good.” But as you try to devote yourself to your partner and his “equipment,” you can’t relax enough to fully enjoy his caresses.
There is a certain distracting element at play here, which prevents you from fully enjoying the oral sex you’re receiving, unlike a situation where you’re lying/sitting comfortably, or… (fill in your favorite position) and enjoy your partner’s touch.
Since both the man and woman have their partner’s genitals close to their faces, the main principle for this position should be hygiene. A shared shower can also be seen as foreplay. Soaping, washing, and touching each other will put both you and your partner in a pleasant mood.
My own rating: The 69 position is a great way to spice up foreplay. To ensure both partners enjoy the position, it’s important to choose one that’s comfortable for both of you. If you’re in an awkward position, it will just put you off and you won’t be able to enjoy the experience.
The position is also relatively safe in terms of the risk of unintended sperm transfer. On the downside, some people may find it quite difficult to focus on two things at once (enjoying your partner giving you oral sex while simultaneously pleasuring your partner). That’s why it’s a good idea to talk it over with your partner and take turns. Don’t be afraid to experiment; for men, the testicles are worth paying attention to, and for women, for example, the perineum (i.e., the area between the vagina and the anus). Don’t be afraid to try new things; you’ll surely be rewarded with a powerful experience and an orgasm for both you and your partner.
Cowgirl
The cowgirl position is one in which the woman is on top. This results in deep penetration into the vagina, allowing the woman to control the rhythm, angle, and force of penetration herself, making it easier to achieve a vaginal orgasm. In the cowgirl position, the front part of the vagina is primarily stimulated.
In this position, the man lies on his back and the woman straddles him, grasps his penis, and inserts it into her vagina. She supports herself with her hands at her partner’s shoulders. The entire act is controlled almost entirely by the woman. She can thrust, sit down, or even rotate on her partner’s penis. Rotating also stimulates the clitoris.
In this position, the man can play with his partner’s breasts or her clitoris. He can caress them, kiss them, and stimulate her nipples, which are one of the most intense female erogenous zones. Thanks to breast stimulation, the woman can experience a much more intense orgasm. The cowgirl position is very popular with both men and women.
Spoon
The spoon position allows for deep penetration and mutual stimulation. It is not a classic rear-entry position; it is very simple and undemanding.
The partners’ bodies are in close proximity; they can cuddle, experience pleasant sensations, and the man can kiss his partner on the neck or earlobes. If the woman keeps her legs close together in this position, it creates very intense pressure that stimulates the penis. The spooning position is also suitable for anal sex.
The woman lies on her side, extends her top leg forward, and bends it to position her buttocks toward her partner. The man lies close behind the woman and inserts his penis into her vagina (or into her anus).
The partner controls the intensity and depth. At the same time, he can caress her breasts and stimulate her clitoris. During anal intercourse, it is important to use lubricant.
Doggy Style
This is one of the rear-entry positions. The penis can penetrate very deeply and, at the right angle, stimulate the G-spot. The woman gets on all fours and sticks her butt out toward her partner. The man penetrates her with his penis and largely controls the sex by adjusting the intensity and depth of penetration into the vagina.
The man can also stimulate his partner’s breasts or clitoris at the same time. This position is not suitable if you have lower back pain, or if there is a significant height difference between partners (in this case, it is best for the woman to kneel on the bed and the man to stand).
The woman experiences a very intense sensation if she keeps her knees as far apart as possible. In the “doggy style” position, it is possible to achieve both clitoral and vaginal orgasms.
Bamboo Pinching
This position is one of the classic positions of the Tantric and Taoist traditions. According to the Kama Sutra, it is one of the most intimate positions for the union of man and woman. It can be tried in three variations.
Variation I
The woman lies on her back and spreads her right leg to the side, leaving it stretched out on the bed. She raises her left leg straight up. The man steps over the woman’s left leg and bends his knee as if he were about to squat. He rests the woman’s raised leg on his shoulder and pulls her close to his body with his right hand. The man slightly bends his right leg and leaves it stretched out on the bed. His left leg supports his weight, and his right leg maintains stability. In this position, the man can insert his penis into the vagina very deeply and at unusual angles. This position is a bit unusual, but very intimate. Circular pelvic movements and deep penetration are very popular.
Variation II
It is similar to the first, except the man kneels on the woman’s left outstretched leg, which he holds between his legs and can even sit lightly on. He rests her other leg against his chest and shoulders. Back-and-forth movements and circular pelvic motions are popular. This position allows for deep, very pleasurable penetration into the vagina, which may also stimulate the G-spot.
Variation III
The woman turns slightly onto her side from the second variation, and the man presses his body and penis even more tightly against her.
The main point of these positions is to find the best and deepest position within the woman’s vagina that will be pleasurable for both partners. Thanks to the deep penetration, your bodies will merge into one, and you will both surrender to the pleasurable sensations.
A final tip from Durex – sexy videos
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Japanese Kama Sutra
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What are your favorite erotic positions? Where do you find inspiration for new ones? From porn movies, the Kama Sutra, or the internet? Share your tips with us 🙂
Your opinions 1 opinion
která milostná poloha nejvíce uspokojí ŽENU???
Hezký den,
to se jasně a exaktně nedá říci, protože každá žena je originál a má ráda jinou stimulaci a má jinak citlivé erotogenní zóny. V základu se dá ale říci, že nejintenzivnější pro ni bude ta, kde ji budete dráždit jak poštěváček, tak g-bod – na to je ideální poloha zezadu “na pejska”.
Ale celkově je to o experimentování a hledání té správné = která může být správná v ten moment, ale podle nálady ženy může být příště jiná 🙂 Je to s nimy prostě těžké, a proto nás to tak baví!