With summer just around the corner, there’s also the chance to spend more time outdoors and discover many unusual places where you can spice up your sex life. One option that comes to mind is sex in water, also known as aqua sex.
And why try sex in water? The answer is simple—water buoys you up.
This will certainly be appreciated especially by couples for whom certain positions are more difficult because they carry a few extra pounds, or, conversely, by couples who don’t dare to try more complex positions on land.
Another reason is that making love in the water is guaranteed to provide a more intense experience. Drops of water running down your skin will transform the entire experience into a much more powerful one, so you’ll feel your partner’s touch significantly more intensely.
How can you enjoy sex the most during water fun?
Aqua sex is a pleasant way to spice up your water fun on hot days. However, before you indulge in some pleasant playfulness, find a quieter spot where you can be truly sure that no one will disturb you.
Among the benefits are certainly the chance to try new and unconventional positions, spicing up your regular sex life, and the main advantage of water is that it buoys you up, so men don’t have to worry about not being able to support their partner.
TIP 1: When having sex in water, it’s not a good idea to go too deep—after all, you certainly don’t want to drown.
Water and birth control = it doesn’t protect you as much as you think…
At the same time, it’s also a good idea to keep in mind hygiene; pond water could cause subsequent gynecological issues, especially for women, so it’s better to choose chlorinated water. It’s also important to remember birth control; if you think you can’t get pregnant in the water, you are greatly mistaken.
Condoms, coitus interruptus, or spermicidal gels are neither suitable nor reliable protection in this case. Reliable protection includes hormonal contraception and intrauterine devices, which water cannot affect in any way.
Painless intercourse can only occur if the vagina is moist. It is a great paradox that water itself can, in some cases, cause the vagina to become very dry, as it can wash away the vaginal secretions needed for lubrication. Water itself does not lubricate at all.
TIP 2: To make lovemaking more enjoyable, try lubricants that are based on silicone.
These lubricants are water-resistant, don’t dry out or wash away. And they provide excellent glide, so you can enjoy even smoother and more intense play. Not just during watery fun, but even in the calm and dry comfort of your home 🙂
Main categories of water-based erotic play
Or, since we’re talking about water, let’s get a complete overview of what it’s all about:
At home:
- shower,
- bathtub,
- hot tub,
- pool.
Outdoor / public:
- public pool,
- beach/sea,
- river,
- under a weir,
- pond.
Outdoor water sex
Or, simply put, what you can easily and naturally experience in the Czech (and foreign) countryside. So here we include all natural water features—though we can also include the sea and its sandy beaches (which you’ll also find on many Czech sandy shores).
Surrender to passion on the beach
If you want to enjoy some fun in the sea, you need to watch the waves and watch out for curious divers, jellyfish, and sea urchins. An inflatable lounger can be a handy aid. You just need to not be shy and keep your balance on it long enough.
Sex in the river
Since the water in a river is usually colder, this spot is ideal for sexual play, especially in the summer. It will be especially appreciated by romantics, for whom the wild nature completes the scenery suitable for natural play. A very accessible natural prop for sex in the river are large, flat rocks, on which you can come up with many unusual sexual positions.
If the couple isn’t worried about being caught and finds a sufficiently secluded spot, they can use the sun’s energy for foreplay when the weather is nice. Their naked bodies lie down on the warmed-up river boulders. When they get too warm, they cool off in the river current. When the appropriate arousal sets in, they lie down together on a wide rock, caressing each other’s naked bodies until they are fully united. Finally, they treat themselves to a refreshing bath in the flowing water.
Sex in a pond
Sex in a pond is unique in that, if the pond is deep enough, there are alternating zones of water at different temperatures. The couple can thus indulge in underwater pleasures in the warm shallows, in cooler depths , or randomly take advantage of the water currents during the act. The element of surprise and the varying temperatures pleasantly spice up sex in the water.
Another interesting aspect is having sex at depth, without support from the bottom.
It’s a bit more challenging to execute, but the result is definitely worth it. However, both participants in these amorous games should be strong swimmers. It is also advisable not to stray too far from the shore in case of cramps or other problems. When having sex in a pond, it is advisable to ensure the water is clean, so that the lovemaking does not result in health issues such as vaginal infections, eczema, etc. Similar experiences with significantly cleaner water can also be found in sand pits, quarries, or natural lakes.
A pond with a fishing permit
In areas frequented by fishermen, sex can be spiced up in two ways. For adrenaline junkies who get a thrill from the possibility of getting caught, sex in the early morning hours, before the fishermen arrive, will be a major draw. With the pressure of time pushing them, the couple will experience a very intense quickie.
After all, they need to get everything done before the first angler starts unpacking his gear and sipping his morning coffee. After all, even a couple of anglers might treat themselves to such a quickie.
They’ll claim the best spot, cast their lines, and still have time for sex before their colleagues arrive.
The second attraction will be appreciated by people with a BDSM orientation. Fishing lines, and sometimes even hooks, are often left lying around on the banks of ponds by undisciplined fishermen. A found fishing line used to at least symbolically immobilize a partner submerged in deep water adds an unexpected dimension to their helplessness. If you plan to include penetration with fishing hooks in the act, be sure to bring your own. The risk of infection for the sake of authenticity is not worth it in this case; the risk is simply too great.
Sex under a weir
Weirs, the bane of canoeists, can serve as an original spot for romantic play. Perhaps you, too, hid under a small waterfall formed by a weir when you were children. Even as adults, you can hide there, away from the prying eyes of curious passersby. The wall of water creates an opaque curtain that shields your love nest. However, be sure to choose safe weirs and avoid waters with high flow rates.
Sex in the bathroom – no longer a secret
Not everyone wants to enjoy themselves outdoors in nature with their partner. Some want to make love in the privacy of their apartment because it suits them better. But sex in bed gets boring over time. What to do? After all, an apartment offers so many ways to let loose with your partner.
- Don’t be afraid to get wild—experiment with positions.
- It doesn’t always slide well in the shower—don’t forget lubricants.
- For safety and better enjoyment, try handles and steps.
- Only waterproof toys belong in the shower — suction-cup dildos, vibrators, and others.
Shower or bathtub?
For example, if you have a shower stall at home, you’re all set. Who would turn down a refreshing shower where you can cuddle with your girlfriend?
Pressing your heated bodies together and kissing in the shower is definitely not something to pass up. Especially when your girlfriend wraps her legs around your hips, allowing you to gently penetrate her?
Of course, you won’t be spared from these sensual water games even if you only have a bathtub. That’s good for sex too, but it depends on its size. Few people are into “water torture” (and this practice belongs more in another article on BDSM), so you’ll likely enjoy leaning against it rather than being directly in it. The doggy style position will definitely be ideal, when your girlfriend offers you her spread legs and both accessible openings. And it’s entirely up to you which of the two you’ll enjoy first—as first in line 🙂
Ideal positions for sex in the bathroom
In this position, it’s best to have your partner lean her back against the shower wall, because this will ease some of the strain on both of you and let you enjoy yourselves in peace. Or your partner can turn her back to you, rest her hands on the wall, and stick her butt out toward you. This view is sure to leave no man cold, and everyone knows how it will continue.
You can start by just caressing her in your lap, holding her hips, and pressing yourself close to her. The more daring will grab her by the neck, pull her toward you, and not let go. Especially if you circle her clit with your free hand—she definitely won’t get away from you then. She won’t want to at all—she’ll want only one thing—for you to sink into her from behind as soon as possible.
Specific scenarios for making love in the bathroom
Aromatic Wellness Classic
Props: aromatic shower and massage gels and oils
A couple in love enters the shower. For them, the shower is not just a source of cleansing, but also a preparatory ritual for lovemaking. They enter the shower stall fully clothed and turn on the music. The woman begins to sway to the rhythm of the music and slowly removes her top.
She dances seductively in her underwear and performs a striptease for her partner. When her partner is sufficiently aroused, he helps her remove her underwear. The moment she is completely naked, the man prepares to begin the sexual act. However, she stops him and demands a striptease from her partner in return. Once they are both naked, they turn on pleasantly warm water and begin a cleansing full-body massage of each other.
They wash each other with their hands or a washcloth under running water, gradually moving toward their intimate areas. This is followed by either sex right in the shower, or they head to the bedroom or another suitable place.
BDSM: A Harder Variation
Props: ideally a handheld showerhead with a strong stream
The woman performs a striptease in the shower. The eager man is about to join her, but is cooled off by a stream of ice-cold water aimed at his crotch. He is then forced to perform a dance routine that ends with him stripping off his clothes. His task is to get his penis into a usable state.
The moment he feels arousal and an erection, he is once again cooled by a stream of water. His mistress enjoys seducing her slave. She shows off in front of him while carefully watching his crotch. As soon as the slave becomes aroused, he is punished with a stream of water. Subsequently, he is forced to merely watch as his mistress uses the shower on her crotch to stimulate her clitoris.
She alternates between different water temperatures and focuses solely on herself. The slave is forbidden to do anything; he must only watch. If he becomes aroused, he is punished again with a stream of water. If he repeatedly breaks the rule, his mistress may tie his hands so that he cannot reach his crotch.
It is up to the mistress to decide whether she will bring herself to climax and torment her slave by letting him watch without the possibility of joining in, or whether she will use the above procedure as a prelude to a shared climax.
What toys are suitable for the shower?
An interesting aid for the shower are special mounts, which you attach to the wall using suction cups, allowing for more varied positions while making love in the shower. Some even allow you to adjust different angles, making even the most acrobatic sexual positions easier.
Of course, they also give you greater confidence that you won’t slip on the slippery tiles and hurt yourself. These holders can add an exciting twist to your shower sex. And we’ve tested a few of them for you.
Sex in the hot tub
A soak in the hot tub (some people incorrectly spell it “vyrivka”) is perfect relaxation even for a single person. The right water temperature and the swirling massage can completely relax you and set the mood for intimacy. Take advantage of this in your sex life, too. Is your partner relaxing in the hot tub? Surprise them. Bring them a nice drink and hop in after them.
Don’t give them time to think about anything at all. Take advantage of your partner’s relaxation and suppleness and take the initiative. Loving touches all over the body will further increase relaxation and arouse excitement. No questions, no discussion of family or household matters. Just the two of you, here and now, relaxed and completely focused on each other. The climax of sex in warm water gently massaging your entwined bodies is a romantic enough plan for the evening.
But maybe your partner has been misbehaving? Then punish them. Enjoy the whirlpool bath all by yourself; your partner can only watch. So you don’t have to bother watching them, tie them up. If you’re into BDSM practices, you’re sure to find a slave collar at home. And to prevent them from pleasuring themselves while watching you, tie their hands so they can’t reach.
Before that, you can put your slave to work preparing some light snacks for the hot tub.
If you’re sociable, invite another partner to spend a lovely evening in the hot tub under the lustful gaze of your bound slave. But even if you’re content on your own, you can tease your slave by letting them watch your naked body blissfully surrendering to the swirling currents.
It then depends on your generosity whether you allow the slave to satisfy you, for example, with oral sex or to give you a foot massage. Then you will certainly put the slave to work cleaning up the leftover snacks and washing the dishes.
If you’re in the mood to play with your slave some more, you can torment him in the hot tub. A bound slave shoved into the hot tub can be easily tormented by directing the swirling water currents at his sensitive areas. The slave will reliably become aroused, but it is entirely up to you when—and if at all—you allow them to climax.
Any attempt at self-gratification will be cruelly punished with a lash of the whip and the denial of permission to orgasm.
Let the slave suffer in uncertainty about when—or if—his suffering will end. Then it is entirely up to you to decide how much attention and time you choose to devote to your slave. He won’t run away from you if you restrain him properly.
Passion at Home in the Bathtub
The main advantage here is complete privacy. A shower hosecan be a pleasant aid for you, as its stream can make the entire sexual experience more enjoyable for a woman. For even more fun, you can also use an erotic toy; vibrating wash sponges are popular, for example. When having sex in the shower, suction cup handles and armrests might also come in handy.
Specific ideas / inspiration for the bathtub
Aids: similar to those used in the shower.
A filled bathtub can be made more special with effects using colors, or the water can be flavored, for example, by mixing in a larger amount of powdered drink mix. For comfort, a bathtub of at least standard length is needed. If the bathtub has a ledge, scented candles are also suitable for setting the mood.
To start, undressing together takes place again. Either in the form of individual stripteases, or both partners can cooperate. There is a choice between a dry version, where clothes are removed before the actual bath, or the partners first get into the filled tub and remove their wet clothes. (In the case of various sweet and colorful additives, however, it is necessary to expect that clothes may get stained or ruined).
Partners can have the tub ready and dive right in.
Another option is to start the play in a dry tub, using a shower. The tub is then filled gradually. If a handheld shower with adjustable water pressure is available, it is practical to use it for foreplay. Directing the showerhead at intimate areas and alternating the temperature and water pressure usually has a very arousing effect. The advantage of gradually filling the tub is the ability to lie down, which isn’t entirely comfortable in a shower stall.
One partner lies down at the bottom of the tub, while the other uses the shower to “massage” the body. If the participants in these games have stressful and demanding jobs (which almost everyone does), they are very likely to feel stiffness in their neck, shoulder, and back muscles. Before sex itself, it’s worth the effort to loosen up these stiff areas. A massage with a strong stream of hot water is suitable for this, as it warms and massages the area.
The massaging partner can further enhance the effect with a manual massage.
However, be mindful of the sensitivity of skin exposed to hot water; combine this with massage oil. Once the problematic areas are relaxed, the entire body will relax more easily, making the sexual experience more immediate and intense. Once the whole body is relaxed, you can confidently move on to the intimate area and the sexual act . As the bathtub gradually fills, adding various ingredients creates visual and taste effects right there on the spot. In addition to touch and sight, you’ll engage other senses in sex as well.
The key is a larger tub
A sufficiently spacious tub is a place from which one usually doesn’t want to get out. It doesn’t matter whether you prefer a tub already filled with rich foam or you fill it gradually. Once you get in, you’ll want to linger. So why not use that time to experiment? Maybe you don’t use any sex toys yet and would like to try some? Warm water is the ideal environment.
A body immersed in warm water is relaxed, content, and open to experimentation. The atmosphere of a closed, fragrant bathroom fosters a sense of trust and intimacy. Moreover, the layer of foam hides the secrets beneath the water’s surface and gives even the shyest individuals the courage to explore. Beginners can try playing a game of surprises. One partner
uses a sex toy on the other; the latter cannot see what is happening underwater, is therefore unprepared, and becomes aroused by the anticipation.
However, it is necessary to judge the intensity correctly; this game is more suitable for a couple who already know each other a little better.
Even more experienced users of sex toys can play this game; in that case, they can use more intense techniques, such as an anal vibrator, simply according to their own preferences. In addition to a sense of privacy, the foam also creates a certain time limit.
After a while, the foam subsides and what’s happening underwater becomes visible. A more shy individual is thus spurred on and simultaneously aroused by the time pressure.
They wage an internal battle, knowing they’ll lose the advantage of privacy in a moment.
Working with the foam can be incorporated into foreplay, for example, by gradually removing it, thereby applying a small and acceptable amount of pressure on your partner’s indecision.
Sexual intercourse can also take place in the bathtub right up to the final climax, or you can use the tub solely for foreplay and move to a more comfortable spot for the actual sex. Or, of course, combine both options. Whichever option you choose, don’t forget when getting out of the tub to dry each other off and touch one another. This will deepen your shared experience. After the bath, large, soft bath towels are a good choice.
If there is a heated towel rack in the bathroom, it’s a good idea to let the towels warm up on it and wrap yourselves in them while they’re still warm. Then it’s up to each person whether they choose pleasant relaxation and calm or, on the contrary, whether the animal within them awakens after the bath experience and wants to continue with matters of love.
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The most popular “water” positions
Sex in a public pool is practically out of the question—but if you want to enjoy intimacy in your own pool, that’s easier. But! Chlorinated water isn’t very friendly to the vaginal environment, and women can suffer from various unpleasant infections afterward. Avoid these by opting for oral sex. A suitable option is for the partner to sit on the edge of the pool while the woman pleases him orally from the water. Of course, afterward, you’ll need to switch roles so you can both enjoy your time in the pool.
If you have a small bathtub at home, don’t strain your bones in precarious positions; opt for a shower stall instead.
Where you can get it on while standing. The water won’t end up where it shouldn’t, and you can focus solely on that amazing experience. But don’t forget the non-slip mats.
Slipping in the shower with a partner doesn’t always end without injury. That’s why you should also install some grab bars in your shower, which will help with stability, and the woman will then feel more secure and thus better able to thrust. Sex in the shower will now be nothing but an intimate experience for her, and not just a physical strain.
Playing in the pool
A pool is also a great place for aqua sex. Because of the chlorinated water, it’s much better to indulge in oral sex in the pool (e.g., he can sit his partner on the edge of the pool or vice versa). You can also try more challenging positions:
- If your partner is resting on the steps, you can ask them to sit so that the water only reaches their waist. The woman sits on their lap, leans back, rests her feet on the edge of the pool, and firmly grips her partner’s calves. Then all she has to do is rock her pelvis in the right way.
- The woman can also rest her elbows on the edge of the pool, brace her feet against the wall and slightly stick out her bottom. The man wraps his arms around her from behind and slips his legs between her thighs. If you rock very slowly, no one will even realize that you’re not just cuddling, but really enjoying yourselves. It’s also exciting that everyone can see you, but no one has a clue.
Specific scenarios for pool sex
Sex in a backyard pool
Sex in a backyard pool has its own unique characteristics. Compared to a bathtub, a backyard pool offers more space, but the water temperature is much lower. Also, few people will add dyes or flavorings to the pool. A backyard pool is usually already filled and does not have a shower. So if you decide to have sex in a backyard pool, you need to take the above factors into account; while they can be changed, it is somewhat difficult and not entirely common.
A backyard pool is better suited for faster, more intense sex than for long, leisurely sessions.
If the pool’s size or counter-current system allows for swimming, try approaching sex as a great relaxing activity after a workout. A major advantage after swimming is that partners don’t have to feel self-conscious about intimacy due to sweaty bodies.
While fresh sweat often seems attractive or even alluring to a partner, many people have trouble accepting this fact. After working out at the gym or going for a run, they take a shower first and only then are they willing to engage in lovemaking. This problem doesn’t exist with swimming. You and your partner can enjoy quick sex immediately after .
What could be a better way to end a workout than a spectacular climax?
You’ll also appreciate a backyard pool if you’re drawn to the thrill of having sex in places where you might get caught.
If the backyard pool is accessible to multiple people, you lack sufficient privacy from neighbors, or there’s a risk of children returning from school early or unexpected visitors, a quickie in the pool is the ideal adventure.
The backyard pool suddenly becomes hostile territory, into which you must sneak in unnoticed, quickly enjoy yourself with your partner while being aware of the ever-present risk of getting caught. Afterward, quickly cover your tracks and disappear as if nothing happened. And you must also be prepared to improvise in case you do get caught.
Garden Pool Afterparty
The garden pool is also a suitable place for romantic play late into the night after a garden party.
Slightly intoxicated by alcohol or the beauty of the world, the partners stand at the edge of the pool and gaze at the stars. A woman in high heels and a form-fitting summer dress suddenly falls/jumps into the pool. The cold water awakens her senses.
But her partner, still in his suit, dives in after her, catches her, and firmly holds her head above the water.
Even her senses, dulled by the cold water, are sharpened; the romantic summer evening awakens sensuality and desire. Depending on the situation and the number of people around, they either tear off their wet clothes right in the water or hastily move to a safer place, where their embracing bodies merge into one and nothing stands in the way of their animal passion.
Sex in a home indoor pool
A home indoor pool offers the advantage of undisturbed privacy. If the pool is large enough to swim in, it’s a good idea to incorporate a game of chase into foreplay. One partner tries to swim away from the other, thereby heightening the thrill of the chase. Once the partner is caught, they can use the moment for fleeting touches that heighten the excitement and continue the chase for as long as it brings pleasure to both. An indoor pool provides an opportunity for slow sex with extended foreplay.
Partners are not as limited by the size of the pool as they are in a bathtub.
An indoor pool offers the chance to try various positions that require more space. The Kama Sutra, for example, can serve as inspiration. The sexual act in various positions can be enhanced by diving and breath-holding. However, during these activities, it is essential to prioritize safety and ensure they are enjoyable for both participants.
The erotic experience is enhanced by relaxing on lounge chairs, where both partners rest side by side, wrapped in a warm, large towel. A good drink is also perfect for complete relaxation and savoring intimate moments.
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Musím přiznat že z tohoto důvodu (sexu ve sprše) jsem přemluvila partnera, abychom místo velké rohové vany koupili spíše sprchový kout obdařený pár úchyty
Jistě bych si před samotným sexem zkusila vyhledat na netu, jestli vámi zvolená louže, nemá problémy se sinicemi a podobným zlořádstvem. Jistě by to mohlo působit zdravotní problémy. Ale stejně Sexu zdar a v létě obzvlášť.